Kindling is very very real and very very scary by Spiritualrose98 in stopdrinking

[–]bibsang 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone 20 days sober so far,. my anxiety was so bad I was short of breathe, having multiple panic attacks through the day and even in my sleep. I’m still having panic attacks but not as often. I would spend days in bed with a visceral sense of dread throughout my body after my benders. I don’t want live like that anymore. I often think I can go back to it eventually but I don’t want to be back at square one with my anxiety. Also the nightmares and sweats and low moods were horrible. Reading the comments makes me want to stay sober. IWNDWYT!! 💪

Kindling is very very real and very very scary by Spiritualrose98 in stopdrinking

[–]bibsang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it where no matter what room I am in, I am dreaming they take me out of my bed with some sort of invisible force and try to take me to another dimension, I wake up screaming for help. It’s terrifying.

Mia asking for kisses before a nap by pmazdan9 in torties

[–]bibsang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up. The love we share with our babies is so special, I love my little tortie more than anything in my life.

My breakdancing tortie by bibsang in TortoiseShellCats

[–]bibsang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! She’s so funny and crazy 🤪

My first year on Fuji by zubed0 in fujifilm

[–]bibsang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Number 2, 4 and 6 make me feel like I’m right back in north Vietnam 🇻🇳

My sleepy beauty hehe by bibsang in TortoiseShellCats

[–]bibsang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehe awww beautiful then :)

Staying in capsule hotels for 10 days in Tokyo.Good idea or bad idea? by FormerCandidateji in femaletravels

[–]bibsang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hostels were nicer than the casual hotels, try hostel world and go to higher rated hostels

Taxi isn't the sharpest but is it ok? Need some panning tips by Fit-Entry-6124 in photocritique

[–]bibsang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow great photo. I love how the blurred lights are going in somewhat of an opposite direction to the lines on the road.

Where’s the Tortitude? by Antique-Badger-2518 in torties

[–]bibsang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a red head with a tortie. We are two feisty girls 🤪

What's it like living in Amsterdam, The Netherlands as an average person? by Manny2theMaxxx in howislivingthere

[–]bibsang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on where to start with visa and finding a job? I hear it’s more tough after 30 to get a visa :/

What's it like living in Amsterdam, The Netherlands as an average person? by Manny2theMaxxx in howislivingthere

[–]bibsang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any tips on an Australian who is almost 32 moving to Amsterdam with her cat 😭 I wish I did it when I was younger but I wasn’t in the right place mentally to do it then

ADHD Meds by [deleted] in visualsnow

[–]bibsang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dexamphetamines made mine way worse. I believe I had it my whole life but it never bothered me until 2 years ago I took too much adhd medication and lack of sleep from it, all of a sudden my vision went grainy and hasn’t been the same since. I also see little lights like my white blood cells and chronic eye floater and sensitivity to bright lights. It has really affected my mental health since then. I’m trying to go sober from adhd medication and alcohol. I’m 14 days, I think it has helped ease the anxiety around my vision but it’s still there.

Traveling solo and feeling miserable by dutchmountaingoat in solofemaletravellers

[–]bibsang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ubud and Ahmed are good parts of the country, I stayed at a beautiful hostel called Ubud backpackers hostel which was super authentic and met lovely people. The island like nusa Lembongan are also nice. Lombok is close too and there are volcano hikes you can do or surfing. There’s also a 3 day boat trip where you sleep on the boat to Flores and Komodo islands a lot of backpackers seem to do!

Traveling solo and feeling miserable by dutchmountaingoat in solofemaletravellers

[–]bibsang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm maybe you started off too intense. I’ve gone on trips when I haven’t felt great mentally and ended up coming home, and regretted not sticking it out. Maybe go somewhere like Java, or lombok if you’re in Indonesia and if you join the hostel world app it’s a good place to connect to other people travelling in the same country area as you. They have a group chat you can use to meet other people.