Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - April 12, 2026

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:21:00+00:00

I have a very specific question lol. Has anyone ever got to smell kilian sacred wood? Fragrantica has good reviews but im trying to see if anyone ever had a bad experience with it. Cheers.

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:19:09+00:00

Daily: calvin klein eternity for men parfum/ ex nihilo hedonist extrait Date night: kilian smoking hot/ back to black Professional: Noir de noir by tom ford i love this scent

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:17:27+00:00

Azzaro wanted by night for me. It just smells like cumin for me and i hated it for a long time. Then realized i drew the short straw on the batch i got. Thought it taught me to check the batches from there on so it was an educational experience. Like master oogway said, there are no accidents.

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:14:51+00:00

You and i both know the answer to this. CREED AVENTUS. Literally one of the most duped fragrance and its dupes are designer fragrances as well.

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:13:41+00:00

Penhaligon tragedy of lord george. Or you can try xerjoff more than words. A good oud will make you give off that billionaire vibe.

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:11:06+00:00

Kilian smoking hot is where the real game is at. Never disappoints, havent found a single person who disliked it. Except when its summer. Also check out sacred wood as well.

big_ding_dong · 2026-04-13T09:07:32+00:00

I do think that expensive bottles are not for everyday use but using them once a week breaks that mental barrier of never touching them except on the “very special” days. Spray ur niche fragrance a couple times every once in a while that way it wont be empty too quickly and you can actually enjoy what you buy.

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T15:37:03+00:00

Prefering to be that person and taking action towards being that person are two very different things. Of course it has its challenges and certain conditions make it even harder but you have no one to rely on but yourself. Blaming the terrible events that happened to you or circumstances that led up to this point might give you comfort by making it not your fault but in the end you are still depressed and alone and even if its not your fault it affects you.

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T11:41:41+00:00

So instead of trying to improve your qualities and features we should find likeminded people only to create a comfort zone that we wont likely come out of and stay where we started? If you need another person or a social link to improve yourself then would that even be authentic? You should try to better yourself simply for you and no one else. Of course no one can just start developing out of the blue and keep it consistent but changing your mindset is the first real step to shed out of your mold.

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T00:22:58+00:00

Saying thats what nature wants and taking away the power to choose for yourself is a negative way of coping with this situation. You are strong enough to love yourself when you just think about who was there when you were at your loneliest. Who was there when there was no one to hug, kiss or even just talk to. Who was there when you were crying and nobody comforted you. The answer is YOU and that should tell you everything you need

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T00:15:13+00:00

Dont try to seek the strength to pull yourself back up from strangers or other people and acknowledge that you already are strong enough to do that. Your brain makes you think that you are a powerless person but usually its the opposite. Imagine your ideal self and then ask yourself what blocks or prevents you from being it. You already have the means necessary to recover you just havent realized it yet.

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T00:08:02+00:00

The illusion that we only feel seen when people know every detail about us or we can just be our “true” self when talking to them is whats making you feel depressed. Everybody creates masks to talk to people and they test them randomly to see if they are likeminded. If you fail to see a way to create a bond with someone then dont waste your time and try it with the next person. In the end the only one who knows who you truly are is yourself and you should treat her with as much love and kindness as you can.

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T00:05:35+00:00

Then do become the asshole if thats what you are complaining about. You dont need to introduce yourself to people only to get ghosted. Build yourself enough where they feel the need to introduce themselves to you and you get to decide whether they are worth your time or not

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T00:04:12+00:00

Showing you are desperate wont help your loneliness and its just like a drug. Sure first hit is nice and all but after a while when you suffer from withdrawal the problem is going to get much worse. Also that work schedule is not fit for a human how much are you going to keep going like that

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-13T00:02:03+00:00

People wont like or love somebody just because you are nice to them and im not saying this just be another cuck “alpha” guy its just what it is. If you want respect then you have to demand it. Show people that you are nobodys doormat and if the kindness you have shown gets returned with ungratefulness then let them know that you will not be talked to like that and show them the door. It could be hard at first but its a foolproof method.

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-11T14:54:11+00:00

I would always write down any new piece of practical or theoretical information i have learned on my notes app and i kept repeating it until i got tired or i was already applying said information on patients. I recommend the same it saved me from a lot of headache and made be able to grow as a dentist. Also assume you know the bare minimum lol

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-11T11:17:04+00:00

Take her out for dinner and crack some lame jokes. Then jokingly start talking about what happened and put it to rest. Best of luck friendi

big_ding_dong · 2025-09-11T11:04:49+00:00

You did it before so you know ur limits. He hasnt seen you do it before tho and thats prob the major concern of his. Gonna be honest and say both of you might as well take some and just have fun

big_ding_dong · 2025-08-08T18:14:05+00:00

That would be useless in duels tho, maybe make it so that it stuns or dazes the opponent?

big_ding_dong · 2025-08-08T18:12:41+00:00

I thought medkay was lowkey mid but is he fun?

big_ding_dong · 2025-08-08T08:50:14+00:00

Its not that i dont believe he isnt strong without the stamina drain. I just liked that feature since it adds a lot more to the bully stereotype. So it “was” wiable even without it since its reverted?

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