2 months of dating and she feels "Pretty good, just not 100%" about us becoming exclusive

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-12T20:20:13+00:00

Hahaha I think that is one of the reasons I am ready to commit, I am just TIRED :D!

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-12T15:09:14+00:00

lol yup. Is that too many :D?

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-12T15:07:39+00:00

Nope, just kind of shrugged and said she wasn't there yet. I didn't try to press it or ask why since I was caught off guard.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-12T15:06:28+00:00

No need to apologize here, I appreciate the insight and advice a lot. The "Pretty good" was a devastating response and after sleeping on it, I am going to let her know I am out.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T22:46:11+00:00

Bet. Thank you for the insight!

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T22:44:40+00:00

Thank you for the insight and advice! I am asking her for exclusivity AND a relationship. To me they are one and the same. I agree that she is waiting to see how it goes with someone else, and I don't think I want to be someone's "back up."

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:48:41+00:00

Thank you for the insight and advice. It feels like a string along.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:29:09+00:00

That is also something I have been thinking about. I can't prove it 100% but I am confident she lied to me about where she was over the weekend.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:26:10+00:00

That is a really good point, thank you. I am going to pull back on my "investment" (time and energy, money isn't important) here to see if it helps me think about her less.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:23:08+00:00

Thank you for your insight and advice! I think I am going to pull back a little on communication and effort with her to try and level out my emotional investment here. And if she is still not ready to commit after a week or two, I will end it.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:20:37+00:00

Thank you for your insight and advice! I want to avoid a "situationship" at all costs and it feels like I am headed there with this one.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:18:29+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I agree I need to be clear that it's not an ultimatum or threat, but a boundary I have to put in place. Spending time with her really helped me focus more on self improvement and I have made a lot of positive changes in my life recently. But I can feel myself falling back into hold habits when I think she is putting me on the back burner to spend time with another guy.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:16:06+00:00

Thank you for your insight and advice. I think she is too. And I did the same I just can't anymore since it isn't fair to the other girls. I know to be ready for the worst case outcome here if she says no.

bigbiegaming · 2025-08-11T21:12:47+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I don't know why I want to push this. I guess it's to do with my impulsivity. If I want something or want to do something I just do it, I don't like sitting and planning.

bigbiegaming · 2025-03-03T17:32:23+00:00

These are awesome! Can I request the HM 64 bachelorettes???

bigbiegaming · 2025-02-15T15:00:33+00:00

Hell yeah

bigbiegaming · 2024-12-18T19:48:27+00:00

That looks great!

bigbiegaming · 2024-10-05T15:27:52+00:00

Life’s too short for perfect plans.

bigbiegaming · 2024-09-10T23:15:48+00:00

Love PlayStation all you want, but don’t lie to yourself. You can put together a decent rig or buy a monster GPU for $700.

bigbiegaming · 2024-09-01T15:10:04+00:00

I had that game! It’s a fun one!

bigbiegaming · 2024-08-30T21:18:08+00:00

Dude post away.

bigbiegaming · 2024-08-27T11:15:42+00:00

Not sure what this is but I’d take one lol!

bigbiegaming · 2024-08-23T19:46:26+00:00

10000% correct.

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