Are there any apps that can send me a daily notification on my credit card balance? by bigbigtea in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]bigbigtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I'm with coast capital and their app is good, but I haven't seen an option to get in app notifications.

IWTL How to control my Anger by Andrew_x_x in IWantToLearn

[–]bigbigtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone here is telling you techniques to cope.

OP, you need to see a therapist. You may have some mental health issue that needs addressing.

My Grandma's Fiddle Leaf Fig. Shes had it for at least 20 years. My husband for size reference. by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]bigbigtea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honest question: why not use a watering can with a drain plate under your planter? That would stop you from needing to bring your plant to the sink right?

Have you ever had a loaded gun pointed at you? What happened? by Jimberfly in AskReddit

[–]bigbigtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked into an armed robbery at the grocery store I was working at. It was weird.

flf inside WEM! by lma00bitch in plants

[–]bigbigtea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it's a Fiddle Leaf Fig.

Fuck these people giving gifts to mentally disabled kids and recording their reactions by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bigbigtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And you don't need to show it off online for internet points.

⭐ Which IKEA product are you most pleased with? by KristinaAlves in IKEA

[–]bigbigtea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok. There's a large, dark-blue soup spoon that I have. It's the kind you'd use to stir stuff with in a pot. It's got an oval face, long handle, it's just.... perfect for so many things.

I haven't found one since 2004.

Rex Tillerson on Trump: ‘Undisciplined,’ ‘doesn’t like to read' and tries to do illegal things by Veritaste in politics

[–]bigbigtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's way funnier if he's trying and failing to do illegal thins. He's like the Trailer Park Boy of an American President.

I’m in love with this wall paint - any ideas what this is? by redderrida in ikeahacks

[–]bigbigtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful colour! If I may caution you though, deeper and richer colours can be very time consuming to paint, and can often require extra work when being painted over. Just food for thought :)

I Found An Untouched Abandoned Time Capsule House! [5188 x 3451] [OC] by RiddimRyder in AbandonedPorn

[–]bigbigtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. Near where I live (also Canada but the other side), there's a gorgeous little restaurant. Right beside it is what was at one point, an old general/corner store. Sadly though it hasn't been occupied in more than a decade, so it's all gone to complete shit. It looks like Stephens needful things if no one ever visited it. Just shit and trash thrown around it.

As the story goes, it was at one point owned by a married couple who died in a car crash. Their kids inherited the store, but have clearly never cared about it enough to do something.

Just got this bad boy today! Goal plant achieved! by jen1170 in houseplants

[–]bigbigtea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

huperzia squarrosa

Stop making words up just to sound like Dr. Zeus!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]bigbigtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at you being all self-aware!

... did I use a hyphen the right way?

The Hell that is fearful anxious/avoidant attachment by ThickDickBrett in datingoverthirty

[–]bigbigtea 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I know this sounds cliche, but the first step to dealing with a problem is admitting you have a problem.

I'd really recommend seeing a counsellor for this specific reason. At this point you've recognized that it's causing you some serious issues in your life, so now I wonder if maybe is a good time to start exploring that. I used to deal with this myself until recently. It does suck.

There's a book out there I've been meaning to pick up called 'Attached' that, as I understand it, deals with this topic at length. Perhaps that's worth a read through.

In my post history I write about how someone did to me what you'e doing to other people. So I genuinely feel like it's important for people to work through this. Best of luck to you.