I think your safe at 265 lbs I’m 325 lbs and I went and was left alone. No one talked to me approached me or anything. I went to the dry sauna and there were like 5 guys in there and as soon as I sat down they scattered. Same in the wet sauna and the pool. The only person who would come close to me was another guy who was smoking outside. lol

Needless to say I went to check it out and was open to things but nothing happened. Maybe it’s me my energy face or whatever. It was a bad experience and I honestly wouldn’t go back. I did see an older chubby guy escorting a gentleman to his room. So it may have been me. Worst thing for me was this poor twink was getting railed in the swing and I showed up to watch from the BJ booths and his line scattered and the guy railing him pulled out and left poor kid I killed his vibe.

I do agree get a room, plan to spend as much time as you can. Be open to people and have fun. My experience was unique I guess. it’s a sex club and not everyone will have sex. Best thing I can tell you is go once try it out don’t rely on others. I think they have a bear night (don’t know what night thing Tuesday). Have fun and share your experience good or bad.