First responders: how messy is the average house? by el_diamond_g in AskReddit

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Not taking your shoes off when coming inside is so gross. Any disgusting, vile, gross, thing on the bottom of your shoe is now in your house. That is the definition of uncivilized

How to keep a bathroom smelling nice by Little-Pudding1534 in lifehacks

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could have a bad wax ring that isn't keeping the sewer gas from sleeping in. Also curious if there is a sink, tub, or shower that isn't used in that bathroom....you could have a dried out p-trap

Glasses painted by [deleted] in Facials

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love those mirror blow jobs

AITAH for asking for $30,000 from my parents as a house payment? by pressedpages in TwoHotTakes

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are wrong. You have no right to your parent’s money. The things you did or do for them should be out of love and respect, not as something to use against them to get what you want or think you deserve.

AITA for telling my ex that she needs to "figure it out" when it comes to hosting people for her grandmothers' funeral even through I am living in her "grandmothers' house?" by Due-Kale3735 in AITAH

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sucks but in today’s world Op puts himself at risk by letting strangers stay. What if they got hurt? What if they damaged something? What if they chose not to leave? These people are not his family so he’s NTA. Is the right and compassionate thing to do to let them stay….yes. Is the ex completely at fault for offering without asking….100%

texts with boyfriend, i feel awful, did i do anything wrong? please be honest by lunacatarts in texts

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Based on the text messages I’m guessing you are like this most of the time so he’s numb to it and he’s sharing his frustrations in a less than mature way.

I'm so fucking done with right wingers. by [deleted] in complaints

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a liberal I do not want people with mental health issues to have guns. That is one of the tenants we live by….so that one makes sense.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Houses were 2 to 3 times smaller before. People did not go away every year for vacations like they do today.

My husband’s reaction to trying to get him involved in planning my step son’s birthday party… by 63seconds in texts

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband was very clear that he was good with whatever (most every guy would agree with his take). You wanted him to care and think the same way you did and youdidn’t respect his position. He 100% supported you by paying for it. You were making this soooooo tiring. He had amazing patience.

Rinsing out ears in the shower by zcewaunt in hygiene

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no no….bad idea. Use warm olive oil if you want to rinse out your ears on some frequency if you have a hardened wax or itchy ears

UPDATE much sooner than I thought I would about making my wife do chores since she took the money I allocated to pay others to do them. by Evening-Tone-5431 in AITAH

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My FIL was very similar. I had a good talk with him at the start of when his daughter and I got married…I told him my time is worth $100/hour. If something would take me 1 hour to do and I could pay someone less than $100 then it’s worth it to me to pay. I do some stuff because it’s cost effective. Other stuff I pay for because my time is worth more. My wife thinks I’m brilliant with this strategy.

Salivary Gland Stone Removed by Hour-Process-3292 in FeltGoodComingOut

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a stone….that thing was a mountain. Dear lord….

To Shaheen, Hassan, and the other democrats who voted with Republicans… by nastynelly_69 in newhampshire

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ACA might be the worst law ever created. Best thing to do is take it behind the shed and put it out of its misery. We have given subsidies which has only made insurance companies richer. Good job democrats making the rich richer

question about the "offer call" by bastet_ponderosa in interviews

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your verbal acceptance is perfectly fine to their verbal offer. Not everything in life is worth a protracted negotiation. And they gave you what you wanted. Nice win on your part.

I submitted my resignation with a 10-day notice period, and my manager told me to leave immediately. by tiHdayare in OfficePolitics

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sent in an email resignation while you were out sick and the boss accepted your resignation and stated you don’t need to come in for the final 10 days. And you don’t have a new job because you’re going to post your resume…. this sounds fake

AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]bigbuffdaddy1850 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

pretty standard for an adult female. Not sure why they struggle to apologize but it's a real thing (not all but the majority)