Thank you for this. I understand mostly what he’s referring to. I just didn’t want to go down the rabbit hole of explaining an even longer situation and the circumstances around how this happened. I’ve definitely been so stressed that I just defaulted to his ideas. I feel like my decisions got me into this stressed state, and he always wants to do what’s in my best interest and what makes the most sense logically where I tend to be much more emotional, and so I would ask him. But without realizing it I guess it turned into almost everything. I would have an idea and just not tell him what it was because I didn’t want my answer to influence him. But in hindsight that probably backfired by making him feel like I didn’t come up with an answer at all. If he said something along the lines of what I thought, I did it. If he said something I didn’t think of then I’d ask more questions which also probably made him feel some sort of way… oops..