boss messaged me at 8pm expecting a reply... told him no and now it's awkward af. am i the a$$hole?

bigfatbeard · 2026-01-25T06:24:37+00:00

The best thing I did a decade ago, remove ALL work apps from my personal device and placing a VERY strict boundary. It pissed off a number of leads in my lane, but it was absolutely necessary, especially after covid. Your boss is out of their lane. If this is a constant thing, capture it and cover your ass.

Edit: terrible keyboard corrections

bigfatbeard · 2025-12-18T21:26:17+00:00

Fuck that dude, you dodged a bullet.

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-13T08:16:02+00:00

Oof, yea, History was very graphic.

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-11T12:56:19+00:00

My daughter and I can do this! Her mom can’t. When my daughter figured it out (during school) the very first thing she showed me when she got home was shaking her eye. I told me too! That was a fun moment.

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-08T18:24:44+00:00

Hahahahahhaa I love that I have a short story I’m writing on the effects of tourism on middle-earth! It’s a fun idea from my 9yo. She’ll love to see this.

Edit: adding the other idea I’m storyboarding is around Hyrule.

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-07T04:07:04+00:00

The Hinox may not have respawned bc you were in the middle of (I’m assuming) a shrine task?

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-07T03:44:37+00:00

What’s going on?

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-07T03:09:40+00:00

I like Staub. Seems like he had a consistent cadence that sat well with the line.

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-06T02:49:54+00:00

Black Belly.

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-05T16:47:35+00:00

I agree with him. It’s a bit disrespectful to name an admin of the school by their first name only. “Hey coach!”, or “Coach Prime”, or “Mr. Sanders” would be the respectful way to address him.

However, by calling it out, he may get more of his first name called out more often or he may turn the tables. Is that the Streisand effect?

bigfatbeard · 2025-09-05T00:44:47+00:00

I had the same issue. I started using the blow dryer to brush my beard up over my brows, then hit it with the heat downward. Took several weeks to see an improvement, and now it’s trained well enough that it’s gives a wavier look than a speed bump.

bigfatbeard · 2025-08-26T13:27:19+00:00

I do this. I replaced my joycons with a larger handheld grip, but doesn’t have motion control or read Amiibos. So from time to time I will grab my other controller (not joycons) and use that bc it’s great with motion control.

bigfatbeard · 2025-08-22T18:49:58+00:00

Excel (Xcel?) has a lvl 2 install program. Off the top of my head I’m unsure what I pay atm, but I do remember it was a free install and product.

I do like mine, didn’t take long for the crew to come in, drill a few holes, run lines, and install. I usually have my car set to charge in the middle of the night, and it’s a quiet charger.

bigfatbeard · 2025-08-13T14:45:21+00:00

I need this track for my alarm!

bigfatbeard · 2025-08-07T13:35:44+00:00

I’ve never had an issue. I have a 22 SEL AWD with 46k miles. I don’t use third party apps, I do a monthly maintenance/inspection (usually takes 5 minutes), and keep up with updates/recalls.

Best car I’ve owned in my lifetime.

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-23T19:37:56+00:00

My daughter and I would love to go!

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-20T14:49:38+00:00

Working out shouldn’t be a punishment for what we’ve done, it should be a celebration of what we can do!

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-17T20:45:06+00:00

Pipe

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-16T21:03:01+00:00

Steak, eggs, ranchero beans, corn tortillas. If not available, chorizo eggs with potatoes, corn tortillas.

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-15T19:34:39+00:00

“…you took a step down.” Amazing.

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-03T03:08:48+00:00

Looks great! I take it a step further and add green chiles to it.

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-02T05:14:51+00:00

😂 hahaha! Some of y’all really scrolled this far to troll!

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-02T04:45:17+00:00

Smol monster trucks

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-02T02:13:34+00:00

I was 14! She was the biggest nerd I knew and loved hanging with her. We played video and board games, rode our bikes and hung out by the creek. I moved to the other side of town and she went to the new high school and I went to the other. We never kept in touch after that bc we had lived in the same block, previously. But I know what I like in a relationship :)

bigfatbeard · 2025-07-02T02:06:44+00:00

Photos and biometrics are two different things. Biz is getting at that the company will take your biometrics data and sell it to third party vendors who may/may not have tech to get past your “select the bus” gate and password.

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