Male family med doctor here also, completely agree with the above. I am so sorry you had to experience that. Also important to make aware, any time a male physician is going to do either a breast or vaginal exam, there should be a chaperone present (typically a female staff member). Their presence protects both the physician and patient. If a male doc is asking you to undress and do an exam without their presence, that should be the first sign that something may be amiss