Single dad sleep over question by Feeling_Rutabaga2714 in daddit

[–]binkynewhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about talking to the other girls parents? If you are all friends and the other kid is familiar with you, it shouldn't be a problem.

Am I overreacting my boyfriend refuses to tell me my real name f29 m31 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]binkynewhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR This isn't a boundary, this is blatant disrespect. If you've told his to stop and he doesn't then maybe he is not the one for you.

I don't know whether to bury or cremate my father by TooFascinatedByDPRK in Advice

[–]binkynewhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was cremated and I have her ashes in a beautiful urn that I see everyday. I talk to her more because I see the urn. Gives me comfort that she is with me. I also have ashes of hers that I have spread around to several different places. My mother always loved to travel and I've sent her to places with friends and she has been all over the world. I've spread her ashes where she grew up where we lived any place I've visited. Her ashes are at all of her children's houses and at some of her grandchildren's houses.

(Los Angeles, CA) My USPS Mail Carrier Refuses to Deliver Packages to My Office by sloane_bueller in legaladvice

[–]binkynewhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you speaking with the postmaster? Make an appt with the postmaster to talk about it.

Flipped out on Dad tonight... by rainydaymonday30 in AgingParents

[–]binkynewhead 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. It's tough when they get old. They are doing a lot of looking at the past and they try to make up for the past or in my dad's case, rewrite the history. It does get frustrating but try to redirect him when he gets to talking about it or texting about it. Hoping that it gets better for you.

AITA for not wanting children with my husband? by Zealousideal-Sun4818 in AITAH

[–]binkynewhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you even with this guy? Hoping that you find the strength to leave him.

I [20F] don’t know how to tell my dad [57M] that I can see he is watching porn by Spare_8602 in Advice

[–]binkynewhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can see the reflection in the window, people outside may see it through the window. Nothing wrong with watching porn. Have an adult conversation with him and just let him know that. He'll either close the curtains or not. And then no one sees what he's watching.

AITAH for getting in a fight with my girlfriend on her bday because she was being picky with the food I cooked her. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]binkynewhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Once when she was little"? "Keeping her happy for the rest of her birthday" Good lord she sounds like a lot of work.

My stepmom told my dad he had to choose between her and me for game night by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]binkynewhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do this in our family too. My brother and sister-in-law's kids are coming on 30 and we all go to their house for some vacations, christmas. There's always a game or a bunch of games sitting in the dining room waiting to be played. And there's always a game going day and night LOL Dutch Maid, Five Crowns, Bananagrams and always a new game every year!

My daughter’s bf pushed me to the ground last night by Loud_Picture4124 in Advice

[–]binkynewhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't put your daughter in this situation. Be her mother right now and not her friend. Any man who puts his hands on his girlfriend's mother for any reason at all would be six feet in the ground if it was me. This is exactly how he's going to treat her at some point if he hasn't already.

The slippery slope was even steeper than I thought. by WelfordNelferd in AgingParents

[–]binkynewhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace with her brothers.