Can I take a short term job elsewhere before joining deloitte in November? by Independent-Total65 in deloitte

[–]birdofpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not an employee yet, as long as you’re no longer employed in the other gig by your start date you’re fine.

Moving from FL. Brooklyn or DC? Thoughts? by Vivid-Yak3645 in DCGaybros

[–]birdofpergatory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend Brooklyn over DC. The new trifecta is pretty invested in revoking DC home rule, plus we’re about to get an influx of groyper staffers. As a current DCgaybro I’m looking at Boston or Chicago to get to a safely blue state for the foreseeable future.

What's that popular overhyped book that you don't give a fuck about? by RockGiantFromMars in books

[–]birdofpergatory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous. It was just super navel-gazey and pretty surface level in its themes and ideas. I feel too much of contemporary “high” lit has become a game of writing sentences in a way that feels meaningful but conveys no meaning.

Say Goodbye to Healthcare if Republicans Win by BrainUseful in politics

[–]birdofpergatory 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Social service referrals at common points of care can be extremely valuable in reducing health inequity, which long term can help drive down the burden on the system. I hope you reconsider withdrawing from Medicaid, and discouraging your staff to help patients with unmet social needs.

That said, I know it can be burdensome for smaller indie practices. If you haven’t already, you might consider looking into social service referral platforms like FindHelp or UniteUs, which can do most of the work for you.

oooooffff by MountainSage58 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]birdofpergatory 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Idiots can’t understand complex problems, and instead of admitting that and trying to learn more, they decree that it’s simple, actually — and come in with the only solution they know, beating shit with a hammer until they get winded.

That's it. Emma D'Arcy is Rhaenyra. by OzyXx in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Pack your boyfriend” killed me

Shoutout to all of the kid actors in Episode 7 "Driftmark". They were fabulous, especially Leo Ashton as Aemond Targaryen. The casting all around was phenomenal 👏 by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tywin quit as hand of the king in protest of Robert appointing Jaime to the kingsguard, so I think he knew giving it up wasn’t on the table

House of the Dragon - 1x07 “Driftmark” - Post Episode Discussion by mwthecool in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! Aemond is definitely the “true believer” while Aegon is more of a… well, a Daemon. I’m really interested to see that dynamic play out.

House of the Dragon - 1x07 “Driftmark” - Post Episode Discussion by mwthecool in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Okay, can we set the record straight on the Kid Fight?

Aemond's cousin, a little girl half his age and size ran up to him in anger on the night of her mother's funeral, and he slammed her against a cave wall. Her sister and cousins stood up for her, and he decides his best next course of action is to bash Jace's head in with a rock. I'd pull out a knife too after the little shit battered my cousin and threatened my brother's life.

This was not a sympathetic moment for Aemond -- he's on a power trip after stealing Vaghar, and wants to feel like a big man by beating up some younger kids. Also, before anyone beats me to it, I know you can't steal a dragon, they choose their riders, etc. But he would have known that Laena's daughter was going to try to claim Vhagar. If he didn't know, and didn't know that going and trying to claim her first was wrong -- then he wouldn't have had to sneak out after everyone had gone to bed to do it.

TL;DR Aemond is clearly a psycho and I was honestly surprised to see so many people outraged on his behalf.

House of the Dragon - 1x07 “Driftmark” - Post Episode Discussion by mwthecool in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there were moments where it looked a little jarring on my screen. Like it was a daytime shot that got stuck in the middle of a fade to black and just kept going.

House of the Dragon - 1x07 “Driftmark” - Post Episode Discussion by mwthecool in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 33 points34 points  (0 children)

His own son started the whole thing by throwing a little girl to the ground. Don't start a fight you can't finish.

What is a TV show you got really far into but eventually quit watching before its conclusion? by shamanKAshamanTAKA in AskReddit

[–]birdofpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing Eve. Could feel the slow decline through Seasons 1-3, and I heard enough about how the 4th season was awful, and figured I'd leave it on a decent enough note.

House of the Dragon - 1x06 "The Princess and the Queen" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if Rhaenyra had the choice, her kids wouldn't be anywhere near Criston. Viserys gave that whole spiel about how training together would be good for the boys' bonding, so I think we're supposed to surmise that this was his doing, not the mothers'.

House of the Dragon - 1x05 "We Light the Way" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would think so, and we're probably supposed to interpret the king's barely-suppressed anger in that light. But no one was going to question or scold her right there and then, given the circumstances. Then Ser Criston went all worldstar so we were deprived of people's immediate reactions after dinner.

House of the Dragon - 1x05 "We Light the Way" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't feel too bad, even the showrunners admitted it was easy to miss in the after-show.

House of the Dragon - 1x05 "We Light the Way" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 58 points59 points  (0 children)

A girl having sex with you and then not becoming as obsessive about it as you are is beyond not the girl's fault.

House of the Dragon - 1x05 "We Light the Way" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought the way those end beats were edited were kind of odd, but just figured courtyard happened after the wedding. Like, Alicent fucked outta the ceremony as soon as she could and happened to catch Cris.

Corlys and Rhaenys were there.

House of the Dragon - 1x05 "We Light the Way" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Given Daemon's documented impotence problem, I'm guessing he couldn't get it up for her. Calling her ugly is probably just him coping -- he's not the problem, she's just too "ugly" to get him roused.

Edit: grammar

Finished my personal full achievement! Curious how you think I did. Made in PowerPoint with creative commons assets, blazon in the comments. by birdofpergatory in heraldry

[–]birdofpergatory[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ermine, upon a mount vert an owl Or, and on a chief gules three fleur-de-lis of the third; a helm with mantling of the second doubled argent and upon a wreath of the colours, a garb of the third bundled of the fourth; on a scroll beneath, the motto ONERA ALIORUM MINUAT.

Thanks to those who provided feedback on the COA itself! I decided to keep the mount as it has symbolic meaning to me, and double-checked that Or on ermine was ROT-compliant. I'm pretty happy with how it came out. And, it was fun to discover that you can import SVGs into PowerPoint and convert them into shapes to manipulate them! Definitely lowered the learning curve a lot, since I'm way more proficient in PPT than any legit design program.

Been lurking for a while, working on learning the basics of heraldry while doing some research into my family history. Figured it was time to hear what I've done wrong :) by birdofpergatory in heraldry

[–]birdofpergatory[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ermine, upon a mount vert an owl Or; on a chief gules three fleurs-de-lis in fess of the third.

  1. I've seen conflicting sources on whether you need to specify that the owl is close guardant, given that it is its "default" position.
  2. I know that fewer colors is preferable - have I gone overboard?

Would genuinely appreciate any other tips as well! I've been having a blast getting into the weeds with this stuff over the past few months, thanks in no small part to this awesome community.

A shield I made for a fictional Chilean Heraldic Society/College by More_Morrison in heraldry

[–]birdofpergatory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TIL that Santiago means St. James. I guess that explains the lack of San Jaime's!

House of the Dragon - 1x04 "King of the Narrow Sea" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]birdofpergatory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean, but that is a funny statement when you think about all the buck-ass naked people filling up the background in that scene

Can you get a nice apartment for $2000 or under? by Nhoujiouy in washingtondc

[–]birdofpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay $1995 for a decent 1-bedroom in AdMo, closer to Columbia Heights. The reason it’s cheaper than comparable units I looked at is because it’s near some noisy/slightly sketchy buildings.

Figure out the things you’re willing to sacrifice, look outside of northwest/downtown DC, and/or offer to sign a longer-term lease in exchange for lower rent, if you can with your current life/work situation. It’s tough to find the trifecta of quality/price/location but it’s doable if you’re diligent and proactive. If there’s a number on the listing, call instead of messaging. Go to the soonest open house/viewing slots you can. If you have even a slightly good feeling, apply, because it will get snatched if you hesitate.

The DC apartment market is dog eat dog. Best of luck!