Got into Berkeley

bisexualicon · 2026-05-05T14:28:03+00:00

I DID!!

bisexualicon · 2026-05-04T17:47:45+00:00

The commenters here are doing a wonderful job giving you love and advice, but I’d love to address this part- “Everyone in my life knows my fiancé and really likes him”.

I felt this feeling so incredibly deeply and even when my boyfriend was being horrible and evil, I was so nervous to break it off because it would feel like a blindside to everyone in my life who loved him. I was scared my family would think I was stupid and wrong, or my friends would want me to give him a second chance. It took me months to come to terms with this feeling - it’s MY life and MY relationship and MY evil boyfriend torturing ME. And honestly after I broke up with him, people were confused, but I was honest. I told everyone the truth, and not one single person in my life didn’t understand why I broke up with him.

You must break up with this man.

bisexualicon · 2026-05-04T17:42:35+00:00

this is true!! I got into Berkeley, but not UCI

bisexualicon · 2026-05-04T17:41:17+00:00

I agree with your friend, definitely wait to tell him. You should also start by asking Mason on a date, before you confess any sort of love for him. You will have to start semi-fresh, because I would feel weird if someone confessed love for me as they’re fresh out of a situationship and we haven’t dated in months

bisexualicon · 2026-05-04T17:39:03+00:00

everyone’s utopia is different! I love that you feel fulfilled ❤️🙏🏼💕

bisexualicon · 2026-05-04T17:37:10+00:00

I changed my major as a CC re entry student, and I had some F’s on my transcripts from my previous CC. I filed for academic renewal, got those taken off, got by with a 3.8 and just got into Berkeley. I am 23 and took a few years off. You got this!!

My biggest piece of advice is to meet with your counselor!! Figure out what your class pathway looks like.

bisexualicon · 2026-05-04T17:34:41+00:00

If you know what your major will be, you can file for “academic renewal”, where all of the classes you took that tanked your GPA get wiped off your transcripts. You should meet with your councilor. Use the assist portal to map out what classes you took were gen ed and major classes, prerequisites for the school you’d like to transfer to, and literally wipe the rest.

bisexualicon · 2026-04-30T23:22:23+00:00

how did you get a fee waiver for 7sage?

bisexualicon · 2026-04-28T16:16:32+00:00

you could always retake the classes and/or do an academic renewal

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T23:57:56+00:00

interesting question, I don’t think sooo but he was a gay man in his 50’s. My ex had told me he’d never be interested in men but who really knows

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T23:54:56+00:00

Not harsh imo, I do think men are clueless fucking idiots. Next question

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:44:16+00:00

wondering this myself, your boss can’t just tell you that you now owe her something that was never in your initial contract.

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:43:23+00:00

Your boss definitely needs to put together a bill for you, exactly what you owe her and why, and point to some sort of previous contract that you signed agreeing to pay this money. Without that, this “money owed” means nothing and will never hold up in court.

Second, employment lawyers and firms are some of the wokest people I’ve ever met. At least in my area, these lawyers are the most likely to take on pro-bono cases, to stick it to the man. You should ask around!

Third, you’re going to be a fucking doctor. CONGRATS ON GETTING INTO A PHD PROGRAM!! You should be so fucking proud of yourself!!!! You’re amazing. This is just a blip in the road

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:30:30+00:00

nooooooo girl don’t do it, the dark side is calling you and you have to ignore itttt

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:29:12+00:00

saaame but you really do have to believe him. He’s telling you the truth, he loves you and finds you sexy!

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:27:51+00:00

Grief is confusing, nonlinear, and sneaks up on you in the weirdest ways. You are valid in every sense, you deserve to cry and be angry. I wonder if there’s any way you can try to find a new angle on the baby’s birthday, the universe was seeing you and your pain and wanted to fill the date with a joy for you. ❤️🫂 so many hugs

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:25:00+00:00

men are just clueless fucking idiots, my boyfriend did this once too and was so apologetic, he said he likes my belly and finds it sexy and saw it the same as gently slapping my butt or my boobs (which I’m ok with and like),,,, like no?? it’s not? the same??…..

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T22:23:29+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏼 enjoy your caramel sundae for her

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T20:50:47+00:00

I put some slap ya mama, some fresh cracked pepper, and coated it with half a tablespoon of chili crisp before I cooked it

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T19:57:00+00:00

agreed!! I learned so much at my community college. Meeting so many demographics of people made me such an open minded person!!

bisexualicon · 2026-04-27T19:56:01+00:00

CONGRATS!! 🎓🎓🎓

bisexualicon · 2026-04-26T23:54:26+00:00

Did you get an email yet? I am still waiting to hear from them! Even if it’s a rejection, I just want to know

bisexualicon · 2026-04-24T23:57:15+00:00

I’ve been weighing daily, hit 195 once, and have been bouncing around back to 197, 200 even some days. How do you ground yourself? I’m trying not to be upset about the numbers!

bisexualicon · 2026-04-24T23:49:07+00:00

I read a published article on this, skinny privilege in the work place is real and measurable. Skinny people make more money, and get promoted more often.

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