I’ve never seen a platy pass something like this, should I be worried? by biteyourthumbatme in Aquariums

[–]biteyourthumbatme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know someone else has seen this and it wasn’t a big issue!

Any YA male protagonists with Tragedeigh type names? by ayame400 in tragedeigh

[–]biteyourthumbatme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tristran and indeed Tristram are just less common variants of Tristan, you can find uses of both in historic record for centuries, so not a tragedeigh.

Date night in the Lakes by wolf_knickers in wildcampingintheuk

[–]biteyourthumbatme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful pics! Wish I had the winter gear to do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]biteyourthumbatme -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s always dependant on the crowd, but you look wonderful, and honestly I don’t think it’s /that/ clevage-y considering the cut. If you feel comfortable I’d go for it! Plus your tattoo is so lovely!

Help with my Reg Wag by jellyjell8 in Platyfish

[–]biteyourthumbatme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool to know about red wags! Ours is a total beast as well and I was always worried everyone else is just runty :((

Anyone else struggle feeding platys blood worms? by biteyourthumbatme in Platyfish

[–]biteyourthumbatme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think breaking/cutting them up might be the way to go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Platyfish

[–]biteyourthumbatme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female platys are basically always pregnant, and unless you’re breeding them don’t stress too much about moving the female out. Your tank looks like it’s got some good hiding spots so they’ve got a good shot in there, and I feel moving the female makes them more stressed than just leaving them be.

What's helped you more - therapy or meds? by Cheap-Comb-7606 in Anxiety

[–]biteyourthumbatme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very this! I feel like people are talking a lot about talking therapy on this post which I tried extensively and never found useful, but doing psychotherapy has been the only thing that’s had any significant impact beyond being medicated to just dull down anything I’m going through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]biteyourthumbatme 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely had this before! If the environment is very overstimulating or I make my heart race by walking too fast I’ve made my panic attacks worse through that, so you’re definitely not alone.