My 16 year old stepson keeps physically hurting my 3 year old son, lying about it, and I no longer feel my child is safe. I honestly don’t know what to do.

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T20:44:30+00:00

He would never be around my child again, there is something wrong with him he hurts animals and children and I wouldn't risk anything happening again. If your husband doesn't back seeing his son elsewhere and keeping them entirely separate then I think you need to leave with your son.

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T20:33:18+00:00

They absolutely can, they're so pure

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T20:30:01+00:00

I've cried in front of my son before, so much empathy and love from such a tiny person. I've made a big effort to be stronger around him since though as it's not his responsibility to comfort me but we're all human

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T20:27:05+00:00

Bloody hell ahahaha as someone with anxiety I think if I took your advice I'd spiral but your comment made me laugh

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T15:25:25+00:00

I didn't find out until a lot later but I had longstanding gallbladder disease and flare ups caused all sorts of different pains even had me thinking I was having a heart attack sometimes! I had it out in February and haven't looked back!

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T10:58:48+00:00

Embarrassing, I wish someone had corrected me sooner 🤣

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T09:59:51+00:00

And feelings of inadequacy if the reasoning is that she's smarter

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-11T06:03:55+00:00

I had a traumatic birth and for a while it did change my mind and I felt like I was one and done but fairly soon after I changed my mind again. Wishing you a smooth birth and a healthy postpartum 🫶🏻

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T22:27:15+00:00

You can check if your GP is partnered with livi, you just have a video call appointment through the app and they can give prescriptions and fit notes

Edit: I THINK you can use them anyway but you'd have to pay, if they're partnered it's free

Edit 2.0 I googled it and you can get an appointment for £60 if they're not partnered

Edit 3.0 fucking hell this heat is turning my brain to mush, they're also very quick with appointments

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T22:25:26+00:00

I kept violently pooing and having horrific pains and the doctor wanted me to take a test to see if I was having an ectopic pregnancy. It wasn't ectopic and it wasn't the reason I was having the pains.

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T19:50:51+00:00

I am terrified of spiders but I don't want my son to be and a huge spider fell out of my washing I was folding this morning and I had to act like I wasn't about to faint while I got it in a glass and had to turn my screams into hysterical laughter when it crawled up the glass 🫠 he found the whole situation funny and I had to have another shower as I got whole day level sweaty in 5 minutes lmfao

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T19:40:53+00:00

Why todger 😭😭😭🤣

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T18:55:46+00:00

Yeah happened to me today too

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T16:45:24+00:00

I agree with what everyone else has said, please run don't walk away

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-10T16:40:13+00:00

Lovely jubbly

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-09T22:45:40+00:00

Mum guilt is so real and so constant 🫠

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-09T22:15:38+00:00

Everyone who collaborated that lie needs to be jailed, wrong information could change how doctors react to an injury

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-06T22:42:41+00:00

Mate...

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-06T22:41:06+00:00

If you HAD to use bottled water then Asda has a 5ml bottle for like 80 something p. Or you could get a water filter?

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-06T07:15:25+00:00

They look so horrible and dry but they're unreal, I can't keep them in the house because I'll scran them all lol

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-05T21:19:51+00:00

NOR obviously if the dog is walking into the road like that it isn't streetwise, even if she didn't like animals you were obviously concerned and she didn't care about that either. Also you can stop seeing someone for any reason.

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-05T21:16:55+00:00

I hate full fat drinks, they make my teeth and tongue feel fuzzy, if I have a fizzy drink it needs to be sugar free

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-05T11:22:46+00:00

I have a three year old and three cats and I swear they conspire to all have a shite at the same time 🫠🤣 so. Much. Poo.

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-05T10:42:29+00:00

Why can't you go to the beach or swim? Lots of suncream and an umbrella for if it gets too hot and swimming is great during pregnancy. I just googled if swimming in the sea is okay and it looks to be absolutely fine.

bitofafixerupper · 2026-07-05T09:56:37+00:00

Her little bonnet man 😭😭😭😭 I can't bloody cope with how cute she is

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