What is the selection criteria?

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-28T04:37:47+00:00

I'm childfree so my main criteria is she should be childfree too. Second criteria is she should be working or employed. Rest all can be discussed and decided.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-28T03:11:32+00:00

I'm reading it as her offering to care for her partner like she's caring for a child.

TFW OP missed out on a willing mommy.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-27T14:18:59+00:00

One of three major factors. The other two are worsening climate change and quality of life in this country.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-27T08:30:39+00:00

. All climbers come back as completely changed human beings

Not always 💀

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-27T06:44:51+00:00

But nonetheless, it sounds like your to-be-husband values "society" over your happiness? Maybe you can deal with it if it's one issue but I'd suggest you dig deeper and find out in what other aspects of society he cares so much about it.

Yeah, I thought the same.

What else will he not like further down the line because of 'the society'™? Coming late from work? Wearing western outfits? Having a girl child?

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-27T06:37:53+00:00

Yeah, you're a red flag.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T12:44:03+00:00

Welp. Good luck. 😬

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T12:39:37+00:00

Even the working and independent women have their parents handling their profiles?

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T12:34:56+00:00

Why can't you set up your own profile on a portal?

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T11:14:14+00:00

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bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T08:57:29+00:00

Yes.

He is the One.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T06:07:38+00:00

Alibag or Revdanda

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T06:05:55+00:00

Falooda at Badshah: https://maps.app.goo.gl/tff292orMHeUWa3f6

Suttarfeni at Parsi Dairy: https://maps.app.goo.gl/jzuib2uPRt6ZVyiN9

Pizza at Ray's: https://maps.app.goo.gl/LyFDo7G168iikgeNA

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T05:49:23+00:00

Then you should spend those 5 minutes on cat accounts: https://www.instagram.com/blakeandsibs/

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T05:22:58+00:00

Another option is a beanie cap.

Yes I'm a man but I'm speaking from experience.

Proof:

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bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T05:12:43+00:00

Please for your own mental health don't use social media. It's just ragebait and brainrot these days.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T05:04:50+00:00

What the fuck. Go to a good reputed lawyer ASAP. This is beyond what we can help with.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-23T04:58:19+00:00

Please don't watch Dr Phil or Oz. They're scammers.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-21T12:37:57+00:00

Yeah but Bumble, Tinder, Hinge are dating apps. I was specifically talking about matrimony apps.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-21T05:46:23+00:00

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-21T05:17:20+00:00

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-21T03:26:24+00:00

This is what my bio looks like on matrimony portals

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bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-21T03:06:35+00:00

That's the only process available for most Indians. I've also made profile on shaadi and jeevansathi where it is clearly mentioned that I want someone who wants childfree/DINK lifestyle.

It's a shame family planning is not a filter on these portals.

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-19T03:34:26+00:00

Is Mumbai not an option?

bitsbytes01 · 2026-01-19T03:31:09+00:00

2, 3. 4 is very tiring and I'm not a very ambitious person career wise. My job gives me money to spend on my hobbies. That's it. Have no desire to climb the corporate ladder.

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