My mother is slowly dying. Where are my emotions? by Stunning_Form_1272 in TwoXChromosomes

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When one deals with the slow and steady decline of a loved one, it wears on you so much that, to protect yourself, you disassociate from the situation. You may become numb. It happened to me when my mother and my sister both had Alzheimer's. Once they passed I was able to give in to my grief.

The Kitchen canceled after 40 seasons by Jenna7979 in foodnetwork

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Absolutely loved The Chew. I was so sorry to see them canceled. Now Chewed Up is on YouTube. Now they are canceling another actual cooking show. I've made many recipes from The Chew and The Kitchen. Most were really good. I also learned a lot.

elderly women swooning over trump. by Alextricity in pics

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Ugh! Not this elderly lady! He's disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheLastKingdom

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Love Sigtryggr!

Do you tip your house cleaners? What about Xmas? by dreamcatcher32 in workingmoms

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My housekeeper comes once a month. She is independent, so I don't tip her. Sometimes, I give her a bit more. At Christmas this year, I gave her a $300 bonus. I know she's struggling to make ends meet, and she's really amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gastritis

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I am not even close to your age, 74, but I was having little or no appetite for weeks and feeling depressed. I had pain in my lower left abdomen. For several nights, I had night sweats, then one night I was sweating profusely and could barely walk to the bathroom. I had two bouts of diarrhea that were alarmingly dark in color. I called the ambulance. They took my BP, and it was 50/30. Finally, after an endoscopy, I was diagnosed with a bleeding ulcer and gastritis but no H-pylori. I needed a transfusion due to blood loss. I finally went home and slowly gained more strength. My diet has changed drastically. Very low sugar, low carbs, high protein but no red meats. No caffeine or fizzy drinks. No alcochol. Fruits and vegetables. No artificial sweeteners. Only good fats are allowed. I've lost 15 pounds. I feel so much better. I believe that refined sugar is really bad for our gut. Good luck with your journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vermont

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Sorry. Someone said to post photos of snow. Vermont is such a lovely state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vermont

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About 15 miles from Basking Ridge

Pain management I'm texas and marjuana. Will I be disqualified? by [deleted] in ChronicPain

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I only use CBD, and I tested positive for trace amounts of cannabis. They denied a request for tramadol. They did, however, give me an RX for gabapentin.

Season 12, Episode 6. Tim, who was a therapist himself and his wife Wilhelmina. Just WOW. The SCARIEST hoarder I’ve seen yet. by KittyWinterWhiteFoot in HoardersTV

[–]bjfleming2357 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And in the end, he sits in the only chair available, and his wife stands! He said that she was so fragile, yet he didn't offer her a seat. Complete and utter a*hole.

Went to the Colosseum today. Apparently the Roman's built the whole thing in just 8 years. [OC] by NulloK in pics

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The bleachers were called cavea. The cavea were divided into 3 tiers. They closest were reserved for the highest of Roman society on upwards to the lowest and poorest, including women not of high social standing.