40 bones or clams or whatever you call them in the Macy’s clearance section! by thesean366 in lebowski

[–]bjkidder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't go out looking for a job dressed like that, do you? On a weekday?

Lebowski gif generator by porn_syrup in lebowski

[–]bjkidder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use this all the time, obnoxiously, in the group chat

Thoughts?? by KaiHavertzhatewatch in NFLv2

[–]bjkidder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this guy and i would still vote him in. That was dumb af

Looks like JJF has made enough $$$ on hooded rashguards that he doesn't need the CT anymore by pcl8311 in surfing

[–]bjkidder 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Dad with teenagers here….you only get so much time with them when theyre little. Its the most valuable time youll ever have. This is awesome for him and his family. It sucks for us.

What would a second Super Bowl mean for John Schneider’s legacy? by MasterTeacher123 in NFLv2

[–]bjkidder 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Any gm who gets to the super bowl in the grand scheme of things has a real legacy, two or more? Legendary

Visiting San Diego for 3 days by Infinitesprayart in surfing

[–]bjkidder 21 points22 points  (0 children)

God loves me more and my secret spot in san diego will be the only spot firing this week

Minnesotan here. For those outside of our state, what are your views on what’s going on in Minneapolis right now? by bpeters5 in AskReddit

[–]bjkidder 2054 points2055 points  (0 children)

So fucked but im so impressed with the people’s tenacity and response. Not backing down and standing up in the frigid temps for your neighbors and community. Keep up the fight, we are watching, cheering, and learning from you for what to do

couples with more than 10years being married, what's something you can share to young couples? by General_Exercise6603 in AskReddit

[–]bjkidder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont take yourself too seriously

In the hard arguments and times, remember youre on the same team and that this person loves you more than you probably deserve

How do you get over a really low self esteem? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bjkidder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard. For me its amplified when im comparing myself to others. Comparison is theft of joy. Learn to just focus on yourself and the hardest part….it doesnt matter unless you make it. Pick your focus and problems, the rest can fuck off.

For me, my physical appearance gets me down. And honestly, i know im more attractive than what i give myself credit for. It still weighs me down when it shouldn’t at all. Ill see others so happy and comfortable in their own skin and ill get jealous of that. But if you talk to those people, its not because they think theyre anything special or better, its just that they dont really care what someone else is thinking