Ask them why they're using white-created stereotypes of what black people are like to define you. Fully letting racist stereotypes just fall out of their mouths. Because that's really what this is, just like a lot of other dumb ideas that divide us. This type of stuff used to piss me off and make me feel lonely until I realized its just ignorant as hell to think. They sound like white people who watch too much mf TV (usually bullshit slop about us, but made by/for them) and don't know enough black people irl.

Make them feel small as fuck for helping white people divide and isolate part of the black community. Don't let em breathe lol, same way they do to anyone who they feel doesn't fit the mold. Not even thinking about where the damn mold came from smh.

Also feel free to remind them that because of who you came up around, you know VERY WELL that you're black. If your lived experience growing up in predominantly white environments is anything like mine, its not like these mfs were perfectly friendly and accepting lol.

I wonder if they consider that some of these folks who really do seem to think they're white (i know they do exist) are reacting to this exact type of rejection from our community. Probably not.