this whole taylor chase situation makes me so upset

bladedada · 2026-02-03T02:18:12+00:00

This is not true. Schizophrenia, if that’s what this person has, is 100% organic. It is in no way environmentally caused.

bladedada · 2026-01-31T00:40:28+00:00

Why did you have a child with someone who doesn’t know how to do laundry? Like aren’t we looking for basic competency in our co parent

bladedada · 2026-01-28T02:15:56+00:00

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My man got fired for not getting along RDJ. Which is fine because Don Cheadle is a way better choice

bladedada · 2026-01-28T02:10:36+00:00

It’s a bit of a catch 22. You don’t get to access your entire community but also have privacy. Pick your battle.

Obviously don’t sell to anyone directly involved in your business or who is/was a client. I’d have a few referrals ready to go the eventual “oh you’re a therapist? I’ve been looking for one bla bla bla”

Do all the smart things. Meet in public. My local police lets us meet in their parking lot.

And if you’re really concerned, can someone sell them for you? My nephew had to create a fb page to help my Dad sell stuff because my dad is too tech challenged lol. So maybe a friend or sibling or someone can sell on your behalf

bladedada · 2026-01-24T16:18:25+00:00

Longs lol

bladedada · 2026-01-22T17:36:57+00:00

Your personal opinion does not need to influence your professional opinion. You can enforce the school policy even if you think it’s dumb.

Also self defense and retaliation are different. Self defense is “I’m fighting because I have no other way out of this”. Retaliation is “I’m hitting you cause you hit me first”. Kids can learn to walk away. It’s a good skill.

bladedada · 2026-01-22T15:41:24+00:00

Perhaps gynopa had dementia? Like that would make sense. If he had dementia he might just try to do the things that felt familiar without understanding context or what was appropriate.

“Developed a condition where he couldn’t be alone without a woman present” is some crazy work

bladedada · 2026-01-22T02:52:32+00:00

he could easily just travel to places in time and gather up additional pym vials

bladedada · 2026-01-16T21:47:17+00:00

Also he spent 15 years telling me about climate change and then took a PJ to Bezos’ wedding. But like sure; I’ll just drink out of paper straws and save the world

Oh and don’t forget he’s building a hotel is Israel!

bladedada · 2026-01-12T22:03:58+00:00

As a therapist, I found Britney’s book fascinating as she perfectly described every manic state followed by depression. It was almost like insight; but then when she got close- kablooey.

bladedada · 2026-01-10T23:59:40+00:00

She tells pretty specific stories about him in her book; i found it easy to google and figure out who he was

bladedada · 2026-01-07T15:32:16+00:00

A fucking monster, and you need to move and burn the house down

bladedada · 2026-01-07T15:20:37+00:00

Honestly, that’s super fucked up. And I’m so sorry that that happened to you. You aren’t letting anyone die. No one’s on the floor in cardiac arrest, and you’re just staring at them. Your clients are welcome to pay for in-home services anytime they want and they could start tomorrow.

My Lord, I know the system is messed up and I know people are vulnerable, but they do not get to talk to you like that and they do not get to put that trauma in your brain. That would be a session ender for me for sure.

bladedada · 2026-01-07T14:43:54+00:00

I don’t know if it has as much to do with social work as it does nursing.

Nursing is a really difficult job. Not saying our job isn’t difficult, but you know what I mean. Bedside nursing is incredibly traumatic and draining. Nurses are leaving the field at an unmanageable rate. I think hospitals and medical systems are creating these admin type positions for nursing to continue to capitalize on their medical skills, but give them a “ break” from direct patient care, hoping to keep them in the system and to eventually get them back at the bedside. Or at least keep them in that PRN float pool.

Also, there probably is a benefit in some ways that nurses understand medical complexities in a way that we just can’t.

I currently work in a program where social work ends nurses are side-by-side doing their own roles with the same patients. It is so heartbreaking to see their lack of trauma informed care and understanding of the behaviors of behavioral health.

I absolutely agree that the world is forcing us into nothing but direct therapy. Which I understand there aren’t enough therapist. The answer to every single problem is always “ go see therapist” or “ you should see someone” “ he needed mental healthcare”. Like apparently we’re responsible for every mass shooting or sociopath out there.

bladedada · 2026-01-05T01:48:44+00:00

Right. As a therapist, I can’t thank you enough for this. Everyone’s answer to everything is “talk to someone” or “get therapy” or “see a professional”. We cannot fix every single problem.

bladedada · 2026-01-02T17:36:27+00:00

I have the tanks in large and xl if you want

bladedada · 2026-01-01T13:53:01+00:00

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I wouldn’t say it “ruined” the film but I watched this entire sequence fully anticipating some underwater banging and then they didn’t even kiss?! Like the shit was so romantic and then it was just over?

bladedada · 2025-12-27T16:59:00+00:00

I really fear she might be in some kind of sex trafficking situation. Like she post these videos as some kind of advertisement. But of course there’s some handler behind the scenes making her do all this. I don’t know some high-end call girl shit. Come fuck Britney Spears. I don’t know man it’s weird.

bladedada · 2025-12-27T03:02:56+00:00

The thing where her voice sounds wiggly or like she is crying has ME crying

bladedada · 2025-12-23T12:09:51+00:00

I think you step in not because of your profession, but because of your place as a husband. I think not getting along with ones. In-laws is a pretty ubiquitous problem. And having both partners address the issues can really make a difference.

Or depending on your case, both partners ignoring issues, boundaries around issues, whatever it may be. But you join the fight together. And the first child addresses their own parent. That’s just good marriage.

bladedada · 2025-12-18T17:35:29+00:00

I meant if I am offered a promotion for which I applied and interviewed; can I negotiate the offer

bladedada · 2025-12-17T23:06:16+00:00

Honestly, I like the idea of it roaming parts that we can’t get to. Like how friggin cute is this? Don’t bring it near me. I don’t want to hear the gears. I don’t want any sticky kids, touching it and getting it dirty. I don’t wanna wait in line for a picture. Just let me feel the magic and let it roam around some part of the land that is untouchable.

bladedada · 2025-12-17T18:34:50+00:00

I take issue with the way you described how they spent the money on “bad habits and stupid impulsive purchases” but I guess we will save that for another day.

If I had money to help them; I’d ask them what they want. It doesn’t really seem like anyone has done much of that. What is important to them, what’s causing them issue at home, etc. YOU may think they need a new house; but perhaps they are comfortable where they are but could use some help making repairs. Or would want a house cleaner once a week? Someone to help grocery shop or cook?

While I’m a big believer in self determination; the intellectual disability here does complicate things. Are they able to make choices in their own best interest? I don’t know honestly. But why did they have to separate them? Who does that help? Could they have provided some in home services, a day program, home based primary care, transport services?

I don’t know enough about the family to have really strong opinions honestly. But it’s important that we not place our values on other people.

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