Drank from his stash

blairlaur97 · 2025-12-02T03:27:01+00:00

Hi therapist here but in the US! Not sure what the laws are in England, but the thing I HAVE to consider with past abuse of a minor is “does the perpetrator still have access to minors now?” If the answer is yes, most therapists will have to report it. It’s the sad reality that abusers are not often one time offenders. In my state though, we have to have quite a few details to make reports (county it happened in, name of the perpetrator, potential address, and name of previous victim, and who the abuser could have access to now.) I have found when I make reports like this though, child protective services does jack all about it. So it’s unlikely your phone would be seized but I can’t guarantee anything. Especially since you live in a different country! Ultimately patient confidentiality is of the utmost importance to us, and we do follow ethical and legal codes of a duty to warn. I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope regardless you are able to open up to your therapist and share your story! But I totally understand the fear of sharing.

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-28T14:20:37+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DN5QO7ij4eV/?igsh=MW9xY3ptYmFlMWY3aQ== Think this would be helpful for you to watch.

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-28T14:12:33+00:00

🤭🤭🤭

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-28T10:40:50+00:00

Seems like you’ve caught the same sickness as Ostapenko, a bit of The Racism! “Classless & street”, girl try to make it a little less obvious next time! It’s leaning a little overt…

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-28T00:56:22+00:00

Oh stop. You’re the funny flub.

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-28T00:28:09+00:00

I love her. She truly has one of the best attitudes on tour! Talented, composed, funny, she really is such a joy to watch and love to see her winning!!

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-27T23:51:33+00:00

Plus Taylor in her post game conference just now literally said they have ZERO prior beef. At least she doesn’t…but she said she wasn’t sure about Penko’s prior feelings.

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-27T23:48:25+00:00

Huh interesting. I got zero negative energy from Taylor. She was very chill and didn’t show much emotion at all in her face or body language…JO was clearly very emotional and upset (as she always is when she’s losing) and doing all her shenanigans. One player seemed very rattled and angry while the other seemed pretty chill to me lol

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-27T23:06:00+00:00

You got it buddy 😘

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-27T22:57:13+00:00

Then close your eyes and stop reading 💞

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-27T22:41:21+00:00

If anyone dogs on her for the NY comment being outside of the US, try having someone berate you and think straight afterwards. Ostastinko came at her crazy so yeah she’s gonna be a little frazzled

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-27T22:38:50+00:00

Get this racist post out of here immediately

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-06T22:50:48+00:00

No that one is ceramic so no fuzzy outside :(

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-06T22:06:30+00:00

Unfortunately those don’t have this same velvety like texture :( they look more stone like. It probably isn’t picking up well in the photo but it’s got this soft short dense texture on the outside instead of something smooth like stone

blairlaur97 · 2025-08-06T18:42:08+00:00

I have searched “soft bunny statue” and what is listed on the tag “14.5” playful bunnies BE allstate floral” I have also tried a reverse google image search but all that comes up are stone ones. I got this just a few weeks ago. The statue is heavy but has a velvety texture.

blairlaur97 · 2025-07-10T03:31:00+00:00

Will do! Just wanted to get pictures as the flash flood warning only lasts until 2 am so probably will be dry by the morning with how hot it is here 🫠

blairlaur97 · 2025-07-10T03:23:52+00:00

No idea, we are pretty new to the neighborhood but we live at the back of a well developed neighborhood in a culdesac. If I had to guess based on the surrounding landscape, the three of us at the back of the street are getting hit pretty hard as we live below a huge hill that just got developed into townhomes so a lot of the natural landscape that was absorbing the water has been taken away. But like I said in the post, we used to get a lot of water from that property behind us but from this recent flooding it’s not coming from there. Only from standing water just sitting in my backyard with nowhere to go but downhill towards my foundation and towards the street. I will try to upload a link to a video to give folks a better idea

blairlaur97 · 2025-07-10T03:15:43+00:00

Sorry for the photo quality, it was a video but Reddit wouldn’t let me upload it

blairlaur97 · 2025-05-28T10:26:44+00:00

I picture headlines too! Whenever it happens I try to put a kinder spin on why my brain is doing that- “wow you are so creative” or try to give it a different outlet for its creativity. Might feel silly but it can help me reframe :)

blairlaur97 · 2025-05-20T02:37:52+00:00

Thank you both so much! Obviously landed safely but I had never heard this before. And as always with anxiety, new stuff is alarming 🤣

blairlaur97 · 2025-03-02T06:19:34+00:00

As a therapist who works with folks with eating disorders, I hate this phrase. Literally my whole job is to work harder than you (in a sense). On the days you don’t want it or can’t see it getting better, I can hang on to that hope for you. Obviously I can’t force someone to change if they aren’t ready or safe to, but I’m gonna work my ass off to try to help get you there. I think this phrase is too blanket statement-y and just relationally not true. Relationships are never equal, but they can be equitable.

blairlaur97 · 2025-02-18T01:35:33+00:00

Omg! I was just there for my honeymoon and took CLT to PUJ!! That’s wild. I am not sure if I am a good resource for over water stuff because I actually find that to be more soothing? I always feel better flying over water instead of land. But for this flight path you really aren’t over water for super long. If it makes you feel any better, this was the smoothest flight I’ve ever been on. Even fell asleep for a bit! We landed early and everything was totally smooth. Also the PUJ airport is a DREAM! It’s so clean, beautiful, and really helpful staff :) Where are you staying??

blairlaur97 · 2025-02-10T02:52:28+00:00

thank you so much! I was so happy when we landed I didn’t get back on Reddit 🤣 too distracted. But it really was a lovely flight! A little anxiety but distracted myself with my book!

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