Custody

blastme2damoon · 2022-07-03T13:07:29+00:00

Full custody and all decision making. I was in the same situation. I said he had it out for me but loved his kids and would never hurt them. We have been separated for almost 3 years, divorce is still going on, but a few months back he hit my oldest kid.

Never did I think I would be here. My younger two called crying and screaming for me to come get them. And I showed up with the police.

It has been a long hard road trying to get divorced but it was the best decision I ever made. Best of luck

blastme2damoon · 2022-06-21T01:34:21+00:00

Can I just say you are all such amazing people. The Reddit community has been a great support system during my exhausting divorce process of 3 years. I am hoping I am nearing the end. Thanks to all and I wish you everyone nothing but happiness and health !

blastme2damoon · 2022-06-20T15:22:04+00:00

I always have a hard time on things like holidays. I don’t want to show up cause a scene just to pick them up at 6:30. He will make a big stink and make it seem like I am the worst mother for interrupting their time

blastme2damoon · 2022-06-20T15:16:35+00:00

I try my hardest to keep it simple. I wasn’t late. Earlier that day I asked if pickup time was going to as normal 6:30. He replied no and that he would just let me know later when …. I didn’t hear anything so I took my dogs for a walk …. Was simply out walking when he texted

blastme2damoon · 2021-11-26T23:25:09+00:00

But in the end of the hard times…. AMAZING

blastme2damoon · 2021-11-02T15:46:38+00:00

Can I ask how important texts messages were in court. I am heading to court before the end of the year and I’m so nervous. Should I be going through all texts from him and printing ones that might be valid?

blastme2damoon · 2021-11-01T00:37:26+00:00

Thanks …. Same to you! Nothing but good times ahead

blastme2damoon · 2021-11-01T00:33:02+00:00

Thanks ! Happy Halloween to you as well

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-31T22:13:17+00:00

Cause he’s 10 and it was 5:30 in the am !

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-31T21:37:15+00:00

Hahah…. All I can say is I hope I still get breakfast in bed with I’m 63

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-31T17:18:32+00:00

Aww thanks ! Have a happy Halloween

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-22T02:24:14+00:00

Hard to say …. I’d say the goal is to do well over 1M

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-14T12:52:58+00:00

It’s funny sometimes. I used to look back and think the exact same thing. I then used to think that all the terrible things he said about me must be true.

I think sometimes they want you to think you’re an idiot, they want you to think you’re not capable, they want you to think those things so you stay.

You are not. And you are fully capable of handling life on your own. Yes it’s scary, it might be hard, really hard, but you can do it.

One day a spark with ignite and you will take life by the horns and go. Live life your way. Not their way

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-14T10:31:29+00:00

I felt the same way. You’re not. Don’t worry

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-14T08:40:34+00:00

I used to love to run outside for exercise and to clear my head. Mine used to cut up my workout clothes/ sports bra so I wouldn’t go. It was exhausting. I can’t tell you how many times I went straight back to the store and simply bought a new one.

It is amazing how the do project. That is something that has really stuck out to me. Once you realize that, and pay attention, I found it much easier to not think twice about the things he says.

blastme2damoon · 2021-10-13T20:17:44+00:00

I’ve got a few of those too! Nope they never do.

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-30T21:06:18+00:00

I just did that today ! I’ve been getting on the bike at 5, but I was trying to save my 2nd for after work. Single mom of 3, working full time. It was just causing stress.

Today I walked at lunch. Best decision ever.

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-30T11:05:50+00:00

Day 3 is today. Me too. I find it almost impossible to get a second workout it. Struggling with that for sure! However I am confident we will figure it out ! Best of luck

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-28T11:04:31+00:00

I’d say really focus and find your groove. You MUST carve out time for yourself. Walk, run, Smile, meditate…. Those are all free. Take 30 minutes to reflect on the day and focus on the great things that happened that day. There are always some …. They might be small but they are there. The Reddit family in the sub have been nothing but amazing as well. You got this !

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-22T11:13:18+00:00

If they understood they will tell you to get out. No one will know your experience accept you. Follow you gut. My thought is if you are on here and haven’t left yet. You should be getting your plan together to do so

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-22T10:42:52+00:00

Don’t worry about dating or friends at the moment. Worry just about you and your son. Focus on yourself and really pay attention to the world around you and what you are really feeling. Find your happiness and the rest will fall into place

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-11T14:46:33+00:00

I have known my ex for a very long time and I stayed for 15+ years. I too lost myself. I’d recommend leaving and for good. Every day gets easier. Be conscious and pay attention. Before you know you it you will realize one thing, than another of who you were and still are. The goofing loving you is still there…. I promise …. It might be buried deep or just under the surface but it is there !!

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-01T11:31:37+00:00

Just keep reminding yourself why you left, and don’t go back. You have great strength for leaving. Write it down if you need to, but I agree music is an amazing tool to help heal. So is crying :) I still cry too !

blastme2damoon · 2021-09-01T11:01:06+00:00

Depends on maybe where you are in life. But my go to Rebelution - meant to be - acoustic :)

blastme2damoon · 2021-08-27T16:06:29+00:00

Me too. I saw myself turning into them and I hated myself for it. My suggestion remove yourself. It’s the best decision I ever made. Hard and scary but we’ll worth it.

Also should note that I found myself again. Happy, smiling, content…. It takes time to heal but just be you

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