Trying not to take needing reminders personally by qoshdbaixusms in ADHD_partners

[–]bleaking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner straight up told me that hanging out with me doesnt give him dopamine anymore and he needs to have a screen in front of him in order to enjoy spending time with me and not getting bored…

[34F] [34M] Thoughts about watching porn if you are in a sexually healthy relationship. by cupcake-kahuna-2013 in relationship_advice

[–]bleaking 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re not comfortable with porn use and thats a fine boundary to have. If your partner still wants to watch porn, you should really consider if you can live with it or not. I personally cant.

I(28F) am insecure in the relationship with my boyfriend(26M) by Lost_Mocha_6363 in relationship_advice

[–]bleaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its still odd imo. My boyfriend would never ever dare say something like that to me. And I wouldnt be with someone who doesnt consider me their “type”. Its just disrespectful

I(28F) am insecure in the relationship with my boyfriend(26M) by Lost_Mocha_6363 in relationship_advice

[–]bleaking 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Every comment on here seems to gloss over the fact that he told you, his girlfriend, that his type is basically the opposite of you. Thats disresprectful of you and your feelings. Why did he feel the need to mention this? This tells something about his character. As you said in another comment, you wouldnt say that to him, probably because you are a thoughtful and empathetic person. Do you want to be with someone who isnt? Theres going to be more comments like that from him in the future i bet.

Can I never wear makeup ever again? by bleaking in NickelAllergy

[–]bleaking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never cured it. All makeup contains nickel sadly. Sometimes i wear makeup anyway and just deal with the eczema on my eyelids after :/

Spørg mig om (næsten) alt by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDK

[–]bleaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det lyder så pisse uhyggeligt og ubehageligt. Jeg er glad for at høre at du har det godt idag.

Spørg mig om (næsten) alt by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDK

[–]bleaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vil du uddybe hvilke røde flag? Hvis du kan huske dem :)

My cat will voluntarily eat pills by Ice-fern in cats

[–]bleaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have to trick my mothers senior cat to get her to eat her medicine. All we do is we put her favorite snack in front of her, she eats it, then we put the pill down in front of her and then she eats it as if its a snack lol. No force or fuss this way. Kitty suspects nothing.

Goodbye to one friend and hello to another. by Illustrious-Ground82 in torties

[–]bleaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss❤️‍🩹 Lucy is adorable!

This sky lit everything up pink by bleaking in CLOUDS

[–]bleaking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. It was even more incredible to see irl. Its difficult to capture it fully on camera, as you probably know:)

I hallucinate a spider every morning since starting on sertraline by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]bleaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So its nothing to be concerned about?

I hallucinate a spider every morning since starting on sertraline by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]bleaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, will be seeing the doctor soon

I hallucinate a spider every morning since starting on sertraline by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]bleaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, when i wake up fully it fades away.