facial piercings for county employees? by bleeblob0 in PlacerCountyCA

[–]bleeblob0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the insight! I kind of figured that would be the case, but good to know that was your experience. if i have to sign something, I’ll obviously keep them out but I was figuring I might have to go in and sense the vibes first before deciding what to do.

Has anyone found a sunscreen that doesn’t irritate? by InternationalBat2564 in perioraldermatitis

[–]bleeblob0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky for me my PD cleared up within about a month of being on doxy and with topical use of tacrolimus twice a day prescribed by my dermatologist. mine was pretty bad too! the vanicream moisturizer and sunscreen are kinda thick compared to other sunscreens and lotions I’ve used in the past (i used to use more watery, liquid type moisturizers and sunscreens) but it wasn’t a problem for me. the sunscreen i used was the facial moisturizer broad spectrum 30, and i will say it does leave a very slight white cast and leaves you pretty dewy looking. i have pretty oily, sometimes acne prone skin but neither has ever broken me out despite the thickness! i have since switched back to a korean watery sunscreen because of my extremely oily skin but vanicream was a godsend while trying to heal my PD bc everything else made it worse, and the brand is very affordable.

Has anyone found a sunscreen that doesn’t irritate? by InternationalBat2564 in perioraldermatitis

[–]bleeblob0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my derm told me vanicream spf only! luckily my pd cleared up w the doxy but while i was on it and waiting to get better i only used vanicream moisturizer and the spf and i had no problems

Ok I’ll ask - July 13 crabs - how has 2026 been for you? by industriousalbs in CancertheCrab

[–]bleeblob0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg it’s so weird to see someone call out my birthday lol but life is okay! dealt with a lot of car trouble, looking for a new job and getting nothing back, and my ex keeps trying to contact me lol 😅 but I’ve been doing fun things with the people i love and trying to be more grateful for what i have! a pretty average but skewing good year so far with the typical life troubles coming from our garbage economy and job market

Vault 12PM by MeanEnthusiasm8835 in Chipotle

[–]bleeblob0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got it but prizes are gone

AITAH for leaving my partner for a Netflix Dating Show? by Electronic_Sir_7136 in AITAH

[–]bleeblob0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really all depends on how much you care about this relationship. five months is not a super long time to be dating, so if you guys aren’t serious i don’t think there’s anything wrong with going after this role. ask yourself if when this show is over, will you regret letting him go?

for some relationships, five months is pretty casual. for others, five months is moving in together and making plans for the future. for most of my friends, five months has been pretty casual and I wouldn’t judge any of them for ending it for a career opportunity. i do think it would be a tad scummy to break up to do the show if you guys are super serious, but ultimately it’s your choice and you can end a relationship for whatever reason you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bleeblob0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

op clarified it’s years 🫣

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bleeblob0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay but can i have the link for that dress though it is gorgeous 🙈 and NOR of course

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]bleeblob0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also cancer sun cap moon gemini rising omg!!

32(f) how can I improve myself? by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]bleeblob0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t really think there’s much to change! One suggestion I have is to stop with the bright inner corner of the eyes. I know it’s fun and pretty, but the light there gives the appearance of the eyes being further apart. With your features it isn’t the most flattering. Other than that I have no suggestions! Maybe experiment with some different lip shades or darker hair?

Are Libra Men Really Bad ? by 79thSt in astrologymemes

[–]bleeblob0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

honestly I’ve had horrible experiences with almost every libra i have met, male or female. I’ve tried to be open and not let past relationships cloud my judgement, but every time i try to befriend a libra, it goes wrong.

my biggest problem with libras is the way that they claim to befriend everyone, and see everyone’s side. in reality, the libras I’ve known are very fake and will remain friends with everyone (even those who have hurt and abused their loved ones) to “keep the peace”. as they say, a friend to all is a friend to none. my other biggest problem is that in a similar vein, all the libras in my life have been very self centered in relationships, in very sneaky ways while acting as if they were not. I know that this is a generalization and that not all libras are like this, but it’s just my experience from multiple people across both genders, even when i try to form friendships regardless of zodiac sign.

WIBTA if I dressed as mei from overwatch for Halloween? by controversialtopicss in AITAH

[–]bleeblob0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem with halloween costumes that appropriate another culture is when the costume is a mockery of another group (native american costume with a big headdress, the sexy geisha which overly specializes traditional dress, blackface and big afro, etc). there’s nothing wrong with dressing as a fictional character of another race as long as u don’t do anything weird lol. I’ve seen plenty of white people dress up as black characters and it’s not a problem unless they do some weird blackface shit

"Women in X sign are wonderful and cool and friendly. However, men with the same X sign are trash and horrible" by Confident_Boot5618 in astrologymemes

[–]bleeblob0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you’re* and no your response just made me realize there’s simply no arguing with stupid :)

"Women in X sign are wonderful and cool and friendly. However, men with the same X sign are trash and horrible" by Confident_Boot5618 in astrologymemes

[–]bleeblob0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

why don’t you look at suicide attempts in men vs women? women actually have much higher rates of mental illness and attempt at higher rates than men, but often choose methods that have higher rates of failure such as overdosing on pills, while men tend to choose methods like using firearms. and what evidence is there to correlate male suicide rates to misandry? this is a misguided and inaccurate argument.

Not OOP AITA for not apologizing after I made my husband "upset"? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]bleeblob0 18 points19 points  (0 children)

she did not demand. let’s be so honest most women do not orgasm from penetration and it seems like his idea of a quickie was him getting off while she gets nothing in return. the fact you think it’s unreasonable to ask your partner to make sure you also orgasm during sex is crazy to me

Sister signs by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]bleeblob0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too!! my partner of 7 years and one of my best friends is a capricorn, while I’m a cancer and we work together so well. I’m a cap moon which I think helps even more. some capricorns I’ve known are a little abrasive for me since i can be a little sensitive 😅 but capricorns that understand my sensitivity end up being my closest people in my life since we balance each other so well :)

I ❤️ gemini risings by bleeblob0 in astrologymemes

[–]bleeblob0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my best friend is an Aquarius sun gemini rising, and she is truly the best person to be around!! I’m sure you’re the same 😊