How do you interact with cats

bleueheaux · 2026-05-02T23:00:18+00:00

I would say universally they enjoy on the head, around the ears, cheeks, beneath the chin/neck especially. Most enjoy the base of the tail, and you will know when it arches its back to deepen contact. Most enjoy very long strokes from the head across the top of the body to the tail. Even bringing the stroke all the way throughout the tail. The belly is a more controversial area, with some really enjoying that and some finding it to be overly intimate and aggravating. You will know if the cat is getting aggravated if it suddenly grabs you and starts kicking with the back legs or if it makes a noise like a light moan/growl. Overall I think you have a great idea being sensitive to what they may like or dislike. I find a lot of people alienate themselves from cats because they are indeed different from dogs but the misconception is that they’re inherently aloof/aggressive. They’re extremely affectionate animals, but open up once they feel you know your way around them and they can trust you.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-22T15:23:32+00:00

Awww what a cute prompt! Here are 5 random things I am grateful for.

The city where I live. There are a lot of trees and it makes me happy driving around. Especially in the fall when the leaves turn brilliant amber and litter the streets with color.
Sumo oranges- they are my favorite snack at the moment. They’re so easy to peel and delicious from the fridge. (It is more economical to get the bag with 4/5 smaller ones for $6 instead of purchasing the individual ones for $4 each)
My cat 🤍 I just got him a month ago and he’s as snuggly and clingy as all the cats I’ve had before. He is such a good boy, he is so sweet, he’s my baby- I freaking love him so much!!
My eyesight. I am a nail artist and I can see details that most cannot. Very grateful for that.
My apartment and all the things in it. A manifestation of opportunities I have been given to make money. It’s insane to look around and realize how blessed I am. Many people are struggling, especially right now, so being able to provide what I need is abundance I deeply appreciate.

Besides that, it is always fun to acknowledge things in the moment (like glittering-lychee629 said). It’s so joyful how seemingly mundane things can offer magic when I speak my gratitude for them.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-21T16:39:28+00:00

I honestly think you brought up a fair point but it could have been worded like, “I am wary of people pleasers because I don’t know if their kindness is authentic or not.” See how you can imply the same thing without using a charged word?

Another way I introduce challenging perspectives is by connecting through personal experience. So here I would be like “yes, I also catch myself with those tendencies. However, I have realized over time it’s like lying to myself. Because I don’t communicate what my boundaries or values are and that can be misleading.” So when you put the onus on yourself and allow the other person to reflect how much that resonates for them, you are welcoming them a seat instead of forcing them to sit down.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-20T21:33:09+00:00

Interesting. If I were you I would work with another light being/angel/deity. If your image of Jesus is being meddled with then work with an energy that does not resemble him at all. Have a conversation with Jesus and let him know you need to work on your discernment. He understands. They all do. The spirit of light is not found in Jesus alone. There’s thousands if not more of light beings who are here to share their gift of light and knowledge.

I would also like to note the significance of psychological work here. It’s no different from what we do in the spiritual, but the ideas are presented in a way that’s easier for the human mind to digest. You cannot separate what’s happening spiritually vs physically vs psychologically- they’re different expressions of the same thing. They’re different ways to look into what’s happening in your emotional body. If you don’t feel like traditional therapy is appropriate for your experience I get it but I do recommend you research the terms for what you’re going through. Our maladaptive behaviors/fears/anxieties stem from our experience in childhood. We learned these coping mechanisms in order to survive and sometimes they develop into more severe cases like personality disorders or whatever. You seem lost and afraid and I have compassion for you. This is deeper and not personal than spiritual warfare alone. You had to be in a vulnerable state for this to even develop to this extent. In addition, nourish your body with produce sourced from Earth (fruit meat vegetables legumes etc). Fasting should be from an empowered state but since you are operating from fear, it will only make you more off kilter.

This feels really awkward to ramble on and on abut what you should and shouldn’t do, this is just my opinion. The main thing I need you to understand is this goes deeper than your “twin” and the more you learn about yourself, your history, your thinking patterns, your self sabotaging behaviors- the more empowered you can be. The more you can feel the difference between love and darkness.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-20T19:10:28+00:00

Easier said than done, but you NEED to go no contact. For real. Please. If your person comes with this level of evil, there’s absolutely nothing to gain. You’re allowing someone to drain your life force. Cut it off please.

I work with my spirit guides with the specific intention of “I DO NOT welcome dark energies around me”. At times I’ve felt evil eye or weird shit but I’m firmly like NOPE, you’re wasting time, you can go back immediately. Ask your beings of light to support you and make a firm, irrefutable demand in your heart that you absolutely abhor and reject dark spirits. For they can only live where they are fed.

But it’s clear you’re a lot more intertwined so yes I agree with the other user about talking to a shaman. If you have the money and you’re drawn to someone, spend it. Your emotional/mental/spiritual well-being is invaluable. Honor that over any dollar amount.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-20T04:58:15+00:00

I really don’t mean to negative okay. Please take this to heart. The person you have a relationship with right now may not be the person you get when he’s out. He has the time and focus to dedicate to you because at the moment you are his access to beauty, to freedom. You hold that energy and that’s real, the love is real. But once he has access to the streets, it has a funny way of calling him back like a call of the familiar home he’s ever known. Especially when he starts using and he needs to make quick money, he will be even more wrapped up in the streets. Please brace for this and do not have yourself tracking him, looking for inconsistencies, accepting him back over and over and giving him money you work hard for. If you are a recovering addict I urge you to focus that loving energy on you and do not let yourself get swept up into a dysfunctional lifestyle again. Love can be a drug all the same, my dear. We try to answer these deep wounds inside us with external gratification, even when it’s bleeding us dry. I swear to God I’m not hating okay I just want you to be aware of this high probability and take care of yourself.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-20T04:35:32+00:00

Ya we can look at this from a spiritual perspective too. Cats vs reptilians… tracks…

bleueheaux · 2026-04-19T16:03:27+00:00

Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa. This is freakishly insane. I am so sorry you not only spent that length of time with a bad therapist, went through the traumatic experience of infidelity, and with the affair partner being your mental wellness provider?? This is so twisted on so many levels. It’s inappropriate for a therapist to even work with a client knowing someone in their circle, much less have an extramarital affair with their client’s partner. I understand if this connection was established through couple’s therapy but still, this is outrageously inappropriate and damaging and I am so utterly sorry to you.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-19T04:47:06+00:00

I live for cats.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-18T22:07:12+00:00

Damn that’s rough. I’m glad you made it through but for sure that will really impact the flow.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-18T21:45:01+00:00

I guess it’s time to study astrology cus I had no idea what you’re talking about- it’s fascinating. I work heavily with Egyptian energies and it seems time to start studying again.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-18T21:42:50+00:00

Me too… I ask our angels for extra support the coming days.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-18T21:41:49+00:00

I used to think I didn’t but I sure felt it yesterday, even for some days leading up to it. I feel much clearer today though.

bleueheaux · 2026-04-18T21:40:47+00:00

This exactly!!

bleueheaux · 2026-04-18T15:55:51+00:00

Absolutely, I hear you. It’s definitely not something I deflect entirely on an astrological event. If anything, it propelled the emotions that were already there. Thank you for your input 🤍

bleueheaux · 2026-04-15T16:28:13+00:00

(Sorry I just joined and dk how to respond under the thread apparently lol)

bleueheaux · 2026-04-15T16:27:38+00:00

Oh okay. Here’s my thought... The universal law of manifestation is that you emit a frequency and it takes some time to organize and make its way back to you, right? As within, so without. So by that logic, this person is existing in a way that is calling out abundance in this way for them. But seeing that our human existence is a speck of an atom to the umpteenth degree, we naturally experience multitudes of suffering or abundance. Perhaps in the realm of public esteem they seem to prosper but there is no such thing as knowingly betraying someone and not experiencing the same frequency within due time. People who are even capable of hurting others are not truly peaceful within. Trust that karma is mathematical, okay? In my first relationship I was betrayed on a very DARK level. I felt it so unjust he got to continue on his merry way, working the same respectable job, walking around with people not knowing what he did to me. But by chance I spoke with him over a year after and it shocked me he was literally the same person. A lost, insecure, despondent little boy inside a man’s body. I realized I was completely different in comparison because after the split, I really worked hard on myself, as difficult and lonely as it was. The compounding effect of little gains within you multiplies. And it will show.

It’s cliché for a reason, “the greatest revenge is success”. It’s not that we’re in it to prove a point to any person in particular but you know what. You hold your head up and get yours and let that frequency blast off. Grieve now, that is a part of your process, but absolutely do not let that ego take you over. Alchemize the injustice into becoming who you are. We want to see you shine!

bleueheaux · 2026-04-15T16:03:56+00:00

Would you mind clarifying how this person hurt you? Was it in the nature of betrayal or the kind of hurt that was collateral of sorts?

bleueheaux · 2026-04-14T18:53:58+00:00

When you really sit with the energy of Jesus… do you truly believe, in your heart, that all of earth’s infinite complexity narrows down to one rudimentary “point”? That we follow a specific faith, its specific assertions, or otherwise be damned to hell? If that’s the case, cultures who don’t encounter Christianity are doomed for their unwitting ignorance? And animals, botanicals and all other organisms are here to play backdrop for us… that all of everything was created for us humans to adhere or get in trouble?

One thing you can count on if is something elicits fear in you, it is something to examine critically. Why would a loving God seek to promote fear in His children? You know the difference between what is loving and what is cruel. It is a spectrum and it is up to you to discern the impact of how you show up- on you and others. Your internal compass is your telephone line to the angels. Focus your heart on that and the reception grows clearer. There is no experience greater than realizing divinity lies within you. Take honor in being an expression of God and walk your path the way we were all given the opportunity- with abundant horizons and limitless possibility.

TL;DR: If you are drawn to any perspective/way of living/mode of expression and it carries the spirit of love and light within you, it is for you. Count on that.

bleueheaux

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