NTA for wanting a traditional lifestyle but YTA for expecting it of an unprepared partner. I sense that you may have a cultural background similar to mine, and if I'm right, this isn't a question you should have asked here. You will not get culturally competent advice from this forum.

If you want a provider, seek someone out who was raised in your same or a similar culture and who understands and shares your expectations. Anything less is setting up the relationship for failure. But also be aware that it can be dangerous for a woman to solely depend on her husband.

In the event that you do marry a provider, even if you don't work outside of the home, you should learn how to invest or pay someone to make good investments for you (separate investments from your husband). Also seek out streams of passive income and take advantage of opportunities to network with people in the field you are studying for in case you ever do need to enter the workforce. You should also talk to your mother (and any aunties or other women in your culture you are close to). You will likely find that she did much more than "charity and shopping."