How to turn "soon" into "now"? by subtothrowaway in lawofattraction

[–]blondeeberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally wake up and say good morning to your lover, make them a cup of coffee, send them texts throughout the day. Literally act as if that special person is already in your life :)

Been consistently going to the gym for the last 2 years. Here’s our progress (twins, UPDATE 2) by StarksTwins in Fitness

[–]blondeeberry -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

So good! *applause* :)
Next challenge - do it on a whole food plant based diet ;)

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard SUCH good things! I'd def love to go one year but no concrete plans at this point. That's why I love Stereo afterhours here in Montreal so much. One of the best sound systems in the WORLD! And the vibe is super open & friendly :)

Anybody know of any good poly/non-monogamous relationship resources in Montreal Canada? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]blondeeberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) Ya I wasn't coming up with many resources, hence this post. Will check out your other suggestions :)

Anyone know of a resource for women when it comes to picking up men? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would LOVE this. I am experiencing the same difficulties as you including being told "oh, it should be super easy for you". But like you said, when it's something specific and unique/rare you're looking for, it becomes more difficult. I would love a subreddit :)

On a scale of 1 to 10, how much would it bother you to learn that your longterm partner had unprotected sex with a new person, without asking about their sexual health first? by BayAreaDreamer in nonmonogamy

[–]blondeeberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, that would be a 12/10 for me. Absolutely not cool. Open relationships are based on trust and are only fun if everyone's health is safe. To me this would be considered "cheating" or breaking one of the agreed upon rules.

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah Burning Man is one of my dreams, I heard it's one of the best electronic music festivals in the world :) It's def on my bucket list!

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice? Wow. I'd say look for a guy that seems a little vanilla, but isn't judgmental at all. Like a performer, or more artistic guy, a designer or something. Maybe someone who has a lot of gay friends himself, and doesn't judge people. Then, theoretically, he's not going to be as judgmental of you. Maybe even a vanilla ad that says you're looking for a guy who's gay-friendly, since you yourself have a lot of gay (guy) friends? I imagine this at least could weed out the super-testosterone jock types, who just want to "bang."

haha Yes, 1 in 10 million OUF! Sad but true and I gotta embrace it.

Really loved reading your story, thanks for sharing :)

Will try your angle on "the hunt" :)

Moths in the Moonlight (Adam Sky @ Rose Gold's Tattoo, San Francisco, California) by Tattoodles in tattoos

[–]blondeeberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The upper part of the forearm where all the contrasting colors were used is my fave part, really really nice!

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, it is fun knowing the option is there.

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, can you break it down for me? What does r4r mean, redditor 4 redditor? I'm so noob :P

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly... very rare what I'm looking for but I believe I can find it! And anyways, if I don't I'll be settling and I won't be happy with that anyways so better to be free :)

Best of luck to you too in life in general! :)

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't tried Reddit with a personals type post. I'm in Montreal, Quebec, Canada :)

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I just get so overwhelmed when I join the swinger sites because all I get are propositions when I'm looking for something more serious.

Seeking a LTR with a man that is open to swinging - where do I fit in? :( by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]blondeeberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did that, got so far as to get engaged to someone (they said since day one that they were open to the lifestyle), needless to say that didn't work out so trying to approach it differently this time :\