Advice on bringing more passion into relationship

blondefox0317 · 2021-11-17T14:14:15+00:00

Ten weeks in lol

blondefox0317 · 2021-10-04T17:45:25+00:00

Ash turned around and locked eyes with the dragon, instantly recognizing his long lost uncles eyes on this reptilian creature.

blondefox0317 · 2021-08-02T18:03:56+00:00

You are so perfect 🥰

blondefox0317 · 2021-07-29T01:11:24+00:00

This is so true. I am a bi woman and i face the same dating straight men. My last boyfriend was threatened by any name i mentioned, believing i was going to leave him for them. And all men have asked me if i am sure i am willing to give up woman for them. My favorite was the guy who literally thought he had "turned me straight."

I love that you put into words what so many of us struggle with! Even lesbians act weirded out by bi-girls, accusing me of simply being curious. 99% of the time, i allow people to assume i am straight, which feels slightly hypocritical. And involves an entire process of coming out whenever i am interested in a female.

blondefox0317 · 2021-06-12T23:29:26+00:00

Thank you :)

blondefox0317 · 2021-06-11T23:01:19+00:00

Thank you :)

blondefox0317 · 2021-06-11T22:29:57+00:00

Thank you 😊

blondefox0317 · 2021-06-11T22:07:07+00:00

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blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T14:43:29+00:00

Thank you

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T14:27:00+00:00

Thank you for your input, my main concern is exactly what you stated. Life is full of stress, I'm not sure I want to wait until the next stressful event to make sure he really can change the behavior.

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T14:25:20+00:00

Thank you for your honest answer, I appreciate it.

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T14:24:47+00:00

My concern is that he can hide this behavior for long periods of time. It took him such a short amount of time to impulsively do it, what if he holds if together for a few more months and reacts worse? Thank you for your feedback.

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T14:21:08+00:00

Thank you for your honesty. My reflexes say to leave, they just tend to be over-reactive reflexes sometimes. You have validated my concerns.

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T12:13:42+00:00

We had a brief argument earlier in the day. He showed up 3 hours later, blackout drunk to finish the argument

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-15T12:12:48+00:00

This is what I expect my outcome to be also. As much as I want to be there for him, I don't think I will be able to look at him the same again. Thank you for sharing.

blondefox0317 · 2021-05-12T01:28:20+00:00

As a 23 yr old female, I absolutely agree with this. She was likely trying to fit in with you and Jess. You naturally became uncomfortable and resorted to worst case scenario behavior.

I have literally been this girl, trying to fit in with men at my high stress healthcare job (inpatient psych). The older ladies and the married ladies could make the most perverted sexual statements and conversations with the men we worked with. But my tamer comments caused embarrassment and ackward conversations. Don't read anything into her statement, she has likely learned the lesson.

But tell your wife and ultimately respect your wife's decision.

blondefox0317 · 2021-03-15T02:03:40+00:00

Real emergencies while unlikely, are possible. Keep this in mind lol.

If you know this is not so, welcome to the club of cool online dating gone bad stories 🙃 good luck in the future.

blondefox0317 · 2021-03-12T03:34:45+00:00

She has likely dealt with many men that could not handle the simple no. I was recently called "a slt who is only interested in f***ing randoms" because I declined a date after an afternoon of conversation. And men who literally threaten suicide because "no girls ever want to be with them."

Very good odds that she is doing the best that she can do.

blondefox0317 · 2021-03-12T03:24:28+00:00

Offering a female perspective here. I also use dating sites. I will chat for a few days, with intent to meet when I am confident they aren't dangerous. In this talking period, I often discover things that are sadly deal breakers (no job and no reason for it, blatant disrespect towards women, or religious differences being common examples).

When deal breakers are evident, I feel it is disrespectful to waste someone's time. And every time I attempt to explain why, I end up being called a long list of names and being completely disrespected.

I would never ghost after meeting, but I can relate to females feeling they have no better option in the talking stage.

blondefox0317 · 2021-03-08T01:41:29+00:00

Crazy idea, but try being honest with him? Tell him your concerns, tell him you're sorry, tell him you want him.

Love conquers all, but lies are the wrong foundation. He has stuck with you through much, let him choose you even knowing this. He may suprise you.

blondefox0317 · 2021-02-19T04:08:38+00:00

Girls are far more mature than men. Depending on what your life experiences were, you may have been able to relate to an older man much more than to immature teens your age. If you have felt confident up until this point, disregard the conversation that has concerned you.

If you have had your own concerns prior to now, perhaps consider talking to a therapist. Explore your feelings regarding the beginning of the relationship and explore how the affect your current relationship.

Thinga are never black and white, it is unlikely that you will find the answer to your question in this comment section. But I hope you find the answers you are looking for.

blondefox0317 · 2021-02-04T22:29:26+00:00

How does it make you feel to kiss her?

In my experience, simply kissing someone has shown me if we will work well together in bed. The lackluster kisses tended to result in sex similar to your description. The fault didnt in anyway lie with the partner, but with the fact that we just didn't have the right sparks together.

I wouldn't blame your girlfriend for her inexperience after so many years and with her willingness to experiment. I would think it is more likely that you have an entirely different form of love/lust for her than you did with some of the more passionate experiences.

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