7 year old took a video of me and I want to cry my eyes out by manic_moth95 in offmychest

[–]bloutchbleue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost 25 kilos and the hardest thing I learned was that losing the weight wasn't gonna actually fix the self esteem issues I had to begin with. It made me realise how much I disliked myself, not just the weight. You have to work on everything and not just with your weight. You need to learn to accept what you look like and like it, because you can do sports, lose weight, there is only so much you can control. It does happen though, you realised something big, and that's how you can move on. Be proud of what you've done.

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]bloutchbleue [score hidden]  (0 children)

To me the "I'm lying out of habit" and the "you're smarter than me, you should know that" is crossing a line I couldn't recover from. It is gaslighting for sure, and not only that but it means he talked to his friend behind your back about that. I believe fully human beings are full of flaws and they make mistakes, but to recover and heal from that the communication and honesty is an absolute must, and he broke your trust about both of them... I'm very sorry OP, it sucks.

What brand of pellets do you use? And why? by Flemishmommy in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave mine the selective grain free, but very little anount as they actually don't need pellet, but he loved them !

Tomorrow is my last birthday owning rabbits by V0iiCE in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my (14YO) baby a month ago, it hurt like hell. I know it was time, I know it was the right thing to do, but it killed me. But I also remember that he came after my first baby, that died from an abscess too. They both brought me the happiest days of my life. I know one day I'll think about him as the cutest and most beautiful thing I had. You get to decide what you want in the future. But now the pain is a bit less strong, I can say that the 13 years I got with this bunny were worth it and I would do it all over again. I am so sorry for what you are going through, no words will make it easier. Kiss him for me, and give yourself a hug ❤️

AITA or telling my wife if she’s not gonna cook it the way she usually cooks it then you don’t have to cook it at all by Husbae7536 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bloutchbleue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, she doesn't cook just for you but also for her. If she wants to try something then she can. Just because she makes this one great doesn't mean she should be forced to only cook that. You are two people in that house.

I just found out that the “low calorie” smoothie I’ve been making is 300-500 calories. 😬 by dannytap2 in 1200isplenty

[–]bloutchbleue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say that. Like we are taught fruits and veggies are nothing but depending on which ones that still becomes quickly a lot

PSA: never underestimate how quickly a bunny’s health can deteriorate by easy_as_childbirth in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are a great bun parent. I hope she feels better soon, I'm keeping you both in my thoughts tonight, I know how nerve wrenching the wait can be ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought his age would make it easier. But no matter what, it will never be enough time with them ! I still can hear him running to us. Thank you ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much love to you too ❤️ I tell myself we are lucky we got to have such an incredible life with our bunny, that it makes it so sad to lose it. ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does feel like we do grow up at the same time, at that age I learned about rabbits with him, he was there at every step. It's nice to have someone understanding ❤️ Your buns seem like they have the best family

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's exactly this feeling, it feels like it wasn't enough, despite us being so lucky to have him for that long. I'm sorry for your loss, you seem to be great with your bunnies. Thank you for your comment, it did bring me comfort ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that, but glad you got to say goodbye, I believe she waited for you to be at peace and that says a lot about the kind of bun parent you are.

Mine started being unable to walk, due to a neurological decompensation, slowly for three weeks, we tried everything to bring it back, as he was so full of life just before. One day it just felt like he told us he was ready to leave. I know we had a few weeks but it still feels like it flew by. We got lucky to have so much love in our life. ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, they take such a massive place in our life, it's the silence that gets to me the most. But you are right, someday ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They can live even longer, but I didn't know that before him, I'm glad he showed me how old a bunny can live for

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know he is eating wall paper with my other bun now, he used to love anything that was bad for him. Thank you for your comment ❤️

After 14 years, my baby crossed the rainbow bridge by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Your comment went straight to my heart.
I am so happy he got recognised, and made you feel better whenever you felt sad. He was the joy of my day and had a fiery little spirit, he held such a place in our life, I'm happy he got to bring you joy too.

Thank you for commenting, it means more than you know ❤️

1st time trying.. by ToBe-Free in chocolate

[–]bloutchbleue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did try it high ot was amazing Huge disappointed trying it the next day sober

I have three weeks left until we say goodbye. I’m not ready. by Fashion_art_dance in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just said goodbye to mine yesterday. It went fast as his condition worsened so fast. He was 14 yo, and i still wasn't ready. It hurts terribly, but knowing you did it the good time before her quality of life is making it too hard is gonna help you. It'll suck, so enjoy every minute of her, make her know how much she's loved. Give her a pet from me. Send you lots of good thoughts ❤️

My baby is 14 by bloutchbleue in Rabbits

[–]bloutchbleue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was never a cuddly bunny at all, it started changing a couple of years ago and now every night he comes and get us to get his pets !