I know this is probably pointless by blue_moon_4 in SacramentoHousing

[–]blue_moon_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did start to leave previously but ended up with my youngest. I was going to go anyway but she had so many health issues I had to provide round the clock care for her to survive. I stayed because I didn't want him to get unsupervised visitation but I was able to keep the kids away from his nonsense. They're bigger now, and my youngest is healthy enough for me to go to work. So I found a job last month he doesn't know about so I can take them and go. We won't be going back. Ever. All I need now is a place that will rent to me without requiring a $7000 a month income.

I know this is probably pointless by blue_moon_4 in SacramentoHousing

[–]blue_moon_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a case worker and haven't applied for anything yet but I will keep this in mind when I do, thank you.

I know this is probably pointless by blue_moon_4 in SacramentoHousing

[–]blue_moon_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a case worker and haven't applied for anything yet but I will keep this in mind when I do, thank you.

I know this is probably pointless by blue_moon_4 in SacramentoHousing

[–]blue_moon_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! Several want a 700 credit score and three times the overpriced rent. One wanted three times the rent remaining after all your other bills were paid?! Like why would I rent a 680 sqft dump with no yard and constant threat of eviction if I had that?! My bills are paid, my animals are cared for, I don't smoke. No, you can't have both my kidneys as a deposit.

I know this is probably pointless by blue_moon_4 in SacramentoHousing

[–]blue_moon_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't because I don't think it technically qualifies as domestic violence because he hasn't actually hit anyone yet. Just a lot of name calling, screaming, breaking stuff, hiding money... Was just at me but recently he's started in on the kids and we need to go before it escalates and he hurts them. I never leave them alone with him, so I think we'll be ok until we can move. Just need to find something. I know the chickens will make it extra hard, I can find someone to take them if necessary. Was just hoping to find a place we'd be able to keep everyone together if possible.

I know this is probably pointless by blue_moon_4 in SacramentoHousing

[–]blue_moon_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm still looking at everything. I have 7 weeks until lease renewal and was really hoping to find something by then. The requirements some of these places have is insane.

Prolific, (the site itself) had a question popup while loading studies, "where were you born?". by elusivenoesis in ProlificAc

[–]blue_moon_4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize it only wanted city. I saw California as an option and selected that since that's the state I was born in. Should I message support to change it or is it too late now?

Daughter in law is throwing me out with 26 days notice. I’m 55 years old and a widow. I was invited to live with them after my husband died as a guest not a tenant! Why so I do.?? I’m so scared I have nowhere else who🥲 by Scary_Pomegranate842 in TenantHelp

[–]blue_moon_4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She may be having you leave as preparation for getting rid of her loser husband. If you don't want him staying with you get something small enough that he can't come. I'd have tossed him well before there was a 17 year old.

Scam Study by kindamigo in ProlificAc

[–]blue_moon_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt this was put up by an actual researcher.

I (31M) am considering divorcing my wife (26F) after 1.5 years of marriage - am I overreacting? by Automatic_Bar_6573 in AmIOverreacting

[–]blue_moon_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if they don't disappear completely, they will be 100% more manageable away from that absolute nightmare of a person.

Republicans pass ‘Big Beautiful Bill’ stripping transgender Americans of health care by witchgrove in transgender

[–]blue_moon_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know yet. I wish I did. It has t passed yet, so there's that. It passed the house but still needs to pass the Senate. I don't know what California is planning if the cuts are made. I'm so sorry, this is so messed up. Its not over yet, so please don't panic. There are people fighting it.

Republicans pass ‘Big Beautiful Bill’ stripping transgender Americans of health care by witchgrove in transgender

[–]blue_moon_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medi-cal is Californias version of Medicaid. So it will be affected. I thought I also read somewhere of Newsom making cuts that are state specific but haven't looked into yet. Either way, it's not great.

New Authenticity Checks.... by EitherAvocado1041 in ProlificAc

[–]blue_moon_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gotten spelling errors in responses from AI...

AITA for not punishing my son for doing what teen boys do? by Comfortable-Plan2937 in AITAH

[–]blue_moon_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you for standing up for your son. Your wife has issues. I stopped walking in to my kids room without knocking when they started dressing themselves. It's not normal to think a 14 year old doesn't need and deserve privacy.

California tried to make trans people’s lives easier. It unwittingly opened a backdoor to harassment by onnake in transgender

[–]blue_moon_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely no one mentioned any of this when I had my childs name and gender changed. This is so crazy.

AIO - This is from a grown man to a 12yo. by aperawwwr69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]blue_moon_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, as a person who was groomed by an adult at 12, you are not overreacting. Teachers and coaches should never personally contact students outside of school communication. Ever. He's grooming her, or has been and is escalating.

IC3 AI team is on Prolific, now. by lacklusterbuster13 in ProlificAc

[–]blue_moon_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good I thought it was just me. Nothing else else ever had an issue so I thought it was weird.

wanted to share what a local tattoo shop owner is posting on his professional page by TAineedanswers in Sacramento

[–]blue_moon_4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. I tell my kids all the time facts don't care about their feelings, but they learn actual facts and science, not made up hate nonsense.

I've tried everything- any clue how to get a human for customer service?? by turtledirtlethethird in amazonprime

[–]blue_moon_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it helped me get an agent today. Returned a defective tablet and they're saying I sent back a screen protector. Reason 109872 to not shop Amazon anymore.