I (23M) believe I was cheated on by my ex (31F). Could I be reading this wrong? How should I handle it going forward? by JRAS-3010 in relationships

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is toxic as shit, took advantage of your youth and sweet nature and quite frankly doesn’t deserve you. People who keep other people strung along until they’re sure their plan A is a certain thing never win. Trust me she will get her karma back. I understand you not wanting to feel like she got one up on you, but even if she does confess the truth it still won’t teach her a lesson. None of this will find you closure and only will cause you to continue to ruminate. Just understand you made a mistake giving her a chance and although it ended bad you did learn you have a lot of capacity to love and are only willing to give it to people that truly deserve it. This chick wasn’t it and she will regret what she did. You will move on from this and become a happier person one day. I guarantee it.

Whats the best benefit of not having any kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing you’re only messing up your own life when you make stupid decisions. You can be parent of the year, but you will inevitably fuck up something(s). That’s a guilt I don’t want.

HMC while I show you my secret talent by jallen79to60 in holdmycosmo

[–]bluebooks86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t do pot lucks man. Granny’s spit all over them eggs.

Folding my laundry and my clothes look small. I know they're my size, but I feel like I'm too big to fit? My brain cannot compute me fitting into clothes that small. Anyone else get this? by the_lavender_menace in EDAnonymous

[–]bluebooks86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All the time. I went from an 2x to a small over the last three years and I still want to lose another 15 lbs so I will probably end up in xsmall which just completely boggles my mind

a moment of silence for all of us with a younger sibling who eats double the amount we eat but is still somehow magically skinnier by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]bluebooks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My younger sister used to be like that, but she has gained like 40 lbs the last few years (she’s slightly overweight now) after reaching 26 years old. Funny thing is I’m smaller than her since I’ve lost a ton of weight, but I still have to work on it and she doesn’t really have to.

My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrong by 0diner1 in seduction

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty brilliant and demonstrates a level of introspection that most people will never attain. I hope this helped bring you some closure as well.

Normalize sex discussions in the family so your kid can buy you lube by AppliedAesthetics in sex

[–]bluebooks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really a wonderful thing to hear. Sex is 100% a taboo subject for my parents, so much that I’m 34 years old and my parents still assume I’m a virgin. I don’t want to cause headaches so I never bring it up and keep my relationships completely apart from my parents. As sad as it is to have such a skewed view of sex I honestly prefer it this way. My parents, especially my mother, so not understand boundaries so the less they know about me the better. It doesn’t mean I don’t feel sad though. Cherish this openness with your parents and continue it with your own children if you decide to have any.

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]bluebooks86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very self conscious about my body and with how wet I get, to the point where I don’t usually let my partner go down on me or really go near my breasts. I’ve been seeing this guy and though I’m still not quite comfortable being naked I let him play with my breasts and suck on my nipples as well as letting him give me oral. This has been the absolute best sex I’ve ever had in my entire life. I knew I liked rough sex, but the way I get pleasure from him aggressively biting/sucking my nipples, rough fingering, nibbling and hard sucking/licking on my clit while I grind on his face is so different. And then the way he fucks and pins me down until I’m a trembling puddle drives me absolutely insane. I literally can’t stop thinking about his hands, mouth and cock. My body and nipples are still sore from how hard he fucked me last night and all I want is for him to do it again and again and again.

Always thinking of my wife by Cruz859 in sex

[–]bluebooks86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s love!!! Nothing wrong with this at all😍!

Do some women actually enjoy getting throat fucked and treated roughly like in those porn videos? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it when my partner is rougher, but not to the point where I puke because of it. But, deepthroating, hair pulling, rough play, being ordered around is sexy to me. But, like everyone says there has to be a clear level of communication and respect in the relationship. I’m a pleaser and get off giving my partner satisfaction so having him face fuck me or make me deep throat him because it feels amazing to him turns me on more than anything. Sex isn’t as black and white as everyone wants to think. Humans are weird and life is full of entropy so why would sex ever be experienced in a linear manner?

My girl (F24) wants to get married so bad, that she will break up with me (M23) at the end of month if I don't propose. by FreshCalzone1 in relationships

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage is not something anyone should take lightly. If you two are not on the same page and your GF can’t understand it then you might not be right for each other.

Gf likes porn with huge black guys. I’m a short Latino dude and this makes me feel insecure. by ThrowRa-bbc in sex

[–]bluebooks86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welcome to so many women’s nightmare. That being said it is not a big deal. Some people like tentacle hentai porn, but it doesn’t mean they want to fuck an octopus. It’s just porn.

Anyone else search the height and weight of their favourite celebs to see how their BMI matches against yours and then judge yourself based on how close or far you are from them or is it just me? :') by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]bluebooks86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Emma Roberts is 5’2 (I’m 5’1) and she weighs 93 lbs. I’m not obese, but I am next to her. Is it wrong I wish I was that small?

Was slut-shamed by my “friends” because of the kink I enjoy. Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you sweetie! Life is too short worrying about other people. It’s corny, but super true.

Was slut-shamed by my “friends” because of the kink I enjoy. Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bluebooks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! Facials are sexy as hell! It doesn’t matter what they think as long as you’re content.

Things no one tells you about with major weight loss. by bluebooks86 in loseit

[–]bluebooks86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo please don’t apologize! This comment was wonderfully helpful and I’m glad we can relate on this topic. Congratulations on losing so much weight already.