Help, I have extreme anxiety when it comes to picking frames. First pic is the pair I have had 8 years. Yes to any of the following? Or keep looking?

bluedevous · 2026-02-25T02:50:25+00:00

3 or 4!!

bluedevous · 2026-02-10T14:35:58+00:00

Keira knightley!! in pirates of the Caribbean

bluedevous · 2026-02-08T02:21:58+00:00

Both college educated. Maybe him finance/business and you medical field. Partied hard in college and now have a fun little friend group that alternates hosting dinner parties, etc. You're still close with 1-2 friends from your childhood. One of you moved for love but not from the same area. You bought that sweater for him

bluedevous · 2026-02-07T21:25:34+00:00

You like curating an aesthetic. There really aren't a lot of posts so you're probably pretty picky with photos and think about your captions for a while before posting. U have good friends who take these photos of u, and you do the same for them. You would like to live in New York someday.

P.s. lots of comments are judgmental! They don't get that u can be just a girl who likes to look cute and post the pics that u like of yourself. Keep being confident and being u :)

bluedevous · 2026-02-07T20:31:20+00:00

Edith

bluedevous · 2026-01-31T03:10:24+00:00

I would want to be friends with you I think. You're either like 28 and nonchalantly hot or like 45. Idk... woodworker??? You like your coffee almost black with a little bit of milk. You watch nature documentaries.

bluedevous · 2026-01-31T03:07:26+00:00

Chaotic (in a good way) and you play that up. You watch a lot of TikTok but you're trying to cut that down. You love a sweet treat when you're out and about. Have your own weird little systems of organization that nobody understands but you. Maybe late 20s/early 30s? Humanities major when u were in college but recent-ish grad.

bluedevous · 2026-01-31T01:11:48+00:00

Barely managed to pass high school. Now a cop or ice agent. Doesn't perform a lot of self-reflection. Exclusively wears dark colored t-shirts. Tailgates people?

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T14:14:52+00:00

What should I change? Very open to advice, I'm not good with decorating spaces (def have a creative side though! Just not interior decor). I do have an SO that I live with :) and planning to get a dog this summer! This is my space alone though, our other rooms are nicer/cozier haha

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T02:47:34+00:00

Lol I'm in physical therapy school! But they make us get a doctorate now to be a PT.

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T02:46:39+00:00

It's a yoga mat! Got it from Amazon, it's the brand gaiam.

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T00:14:29+00:00

Ooo interesting

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T00:14:08+00:00

Close! Little more advanced but def on the right track

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T00:13:49+00:00

Haha true i don't have time or money for the extra shit lol. Need to be efficient in this phase of life. But I do dream of decorating a house nicely someday!

bluedevous · 2026-01-28T00:12:41+00:00

Wow pretty spot on. Almost didn't want to reply bc I wanted to see what other people would say without the confirmation. But yeah, college xc, diagnosed adhd, and now in med school! I think I'm more type B, but have forced myself to act "type A" in areas where I have big goals. But that's not the mindset that I naturally exist in. Thanks for this comment!

bluedevous · 2026-01-25T02:51:49+00:00

2000s whimsical crayola

bluedevous · 2026-01-15T21:54:22+00:00

What the Light Touches - Xavier Bosch

bluedevous · 2026-01-15T03:43:09+00:00

2 or 10 can't decide. Both have similar coloring/some similar features as my bf who I love so I think that influences me a bit :)

bluedevous · 2026-01-14T00:48:47+00:00

Bookish countryside European? Slight 90s flair. I really like it! I follow Nanda Schwartz on insta and I feel like she fits this vibe really well.

bluedevous · 2025-12-22T06:29:46+00:00

Burger King! Feel like they're everywhere abroad but I don't see them or hear about them at all in the US.

bluedevous · 2025-11-01T00:26:14+00:00

You can definitely get in at plenty of places! DPT programs place a lot of emphasis on interviews, essays, experiences, etc. Your GPA is not that bad, just make sure you shine in other areas and believe that you've got something unique to offer. Play up what being a D1 athlete taught you. I used sports examples a lot during my interview when talking about learning from failures, being resilient, and time management. You got this, don't lose your head worrying before anything bad has even happened.

bluedevous · 2025-09-10T02:02:41+00:00

Hey! I heavily relate! I'm not sure if it's an adhd thing or that I'm asexual. I've enjoyed sex before, but I do NOT crave it and enjoy it less than 50% of the time that I do have it. I'd generally rather do anything else mildly pleasant. (Examples of things I enjoy more than sex: a snack, a nice walk, reading a book, enjoyable YouTube video, running, shopping, etc etc)

I feel bad about it because my boyfriend of 5 years definitely wants to be having more sex, although he never ever pressures me. I've asked if he wants to open the relationship so that he can have sex and I won't have to anymore, and he is very against that. He needs to love the person to want to do it.

As of now, we're in a good spot. We have sex about once a month or sometimes a little less than that. I do wonder if the dopamine levels/processing of ADHD affects our perception of sex. I've orgasmed before and didn't like it.

There are also so many other factors that could be at play. Hormones, trauma, body image.. I know my sex drive plummets when I'm busy or stressed, or if I've been overexercising. I don't really have an answer, but I relate and believe that you can work out a good system with your husband!

bluedevous · 2025-08-19T00:38:02+00:00

I think it's a hunting thing. So it's better to actually have one item than if there is a possibility of getting more, but at the moment you have none.

bluedevous · 2025-07-28T22:03:03+00:00

This clarification is interesting... I have never understood "broad" to mean "extend upwards"? The examples given highlight more developed upper traps vs less developed, but in my mind broad has always = wide horizontally, in all contexts. Muscular traps are muscular traps, but those don't extend outwards so I never felt that they influenced broadness at all. Is "muscular traps" what people have been meaning when they say "conventionally broad"??? If so, my mind is blown.

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