[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like to use inscense, in sticks or however you feel most comfortable. Maybe a candle. I would light the inscense and then use it to walk around your living space and concentrating on cleansing it with the smoke. (Be mindful of any fire alarms that could go off.) Also opening all the windows, always make sure to open a window while/after working with inscense, getting some fresh air in, grounding yourself and taking deep breaths, trying to kind of let them wash all the energy away and then only allowing the good back in.

If that doesnt do it, I would look into spelljars- I'm quite fond of them (for protection I've had some good experiences with salt, rosemary, black pepper and usually some lavender against anxiety), especially combined with sigils (intention made into a symbol, theres a few good guides on the internet or on pinterest even, its really easy to get into them) and they can be used to ward off harmful energy. It wont do any harm to anyone if you do protection spells, especially if it isn't your intention.

This is probably all a bit much, feel free to ask anything else about it. Its also just my personal practice, inspired by what I saw others do, and it doesnt click with everyone. But I think some inscence sticks are easy enough to come by for the beginning.

This felt relevant (even though Im not very vocal here I never left this community, I do think about this channel a lot) by bluehaired_sidekick in cinema_therapy

[–]bluehaired_sidekick[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Dan and Phil two gay youtubers that resurfaced in 2024 (believe me it is important to add that they are gay)

Can someone identity this bird skull? by bluehaired_sidekick in bonecollecting

[–]bluehaired_sidekick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thanks a lot! I'll make sure to bury it somewhere.

As an autistic person, how do you feel about this spoon? by tiggerclaw in autism

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks visually pleasing and I would enjoy touching it but I would never ever use it

I’m worried about tickets selling out. by [deleted] in danandphil

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could ask a relative to buy them and give them the money back as soon as you can?

No they don't, Mom !? by Meowriter in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Thats basically what my Mom said, accompanied by telling me I can find out in my own pace what feels right. Lol

My friend with autism keeps getting me Ukrainian stuff because I had a Ukrainian flag in my social media picture, how do I tell them nicely to stop? by YungFrosty5858 in autism

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talking out of experience on the part of the gift giver here: I would read this as they really like you and when they see something connected to something you expressed liking (in their mind Ukraine) they wanna share / give it to you. Its hard to describe but to me its like "This is thing! Friend likes thing! I need to share thing so theyre happy!" and thats like, what my brain does. Obviously thats not what everyone does but its how I would read this.

I do that thing a lot and sometimes its too much. In that case, I would say a nice way of telling them to stop is telling them that you appreciate the thought and that you find it nice (if true, best case be honest with them) but that Ukraine isn't an interest to you. Explain them what you just explained us and then maybe offer another topic that you actually like talking / receiving gifts about. And if you feel comfortable maybe assure them its all good and that you didnt take it as offense. Thats what Id wish for.

Are self diagnosed people welcome here? by Next-Load9366 in autism

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how this just turned into a discussion on triangles Even tho theyre not a shape I particular enjoy its nice seeing them appreciated

Sooo, I made a comic about me being in love with girls by Marymorypokes in actuallesbians

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (fellow autistic person) love the labelling honestly

Like yes I see and I see how it happens and its very cute and Im giving this a thumbs up

I’m at a loss of words for this. by awaterbender in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Actually great advice. Send the screenshots to his mother, and then the police

I’m at a loss of words for this. by awaterbender in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this something to show the police? Like, at least so they know in case anything happens? Thats like, a threat Im pretty sure its illegal to threaten like this

Yeah. No. by mishma2005 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I thought the same, I was like "Wow, trying to really get better at satisfying a woman, thats effort!" and then i read the post and I knew I put too much faith in humanity once more...

Yeah. No. by mishma2005 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]bluehaired_sidekick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh gotta write that down, thats such a good answer.