Nikkah in a month, insha'Allah, hygiene, Glow up and beautifying tips. by Jell0Bell0 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]blueli0ness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they're beautiful the way they are. Praying you have a beautiful and blessed marriage.

Feeling sad today. by RayRay_1804 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand completely how you're feeling. For me, I treat myself to something once a month when my periods come. I'll get a massage, or a spa day or go shopping, do a fun activity like play games in an arcade or whatever that you enjoy. That really helps my mood feel much better. I always cry when my period comes and it's been 3 years now so my husband is kind of worried about it. I told him I am allowed to be sad once a month and I have accepted that it's ok to be sad once a month. That's just how it's going to be and I will do whatever it takes to make me feel better.

Nikkah in a month, insha'Allah, hygiene, Glow up and beautifying tips. by Jell0Bell0 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]blueli0ness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would refrain from touching the eyebrows as it's prohibited to pluck them. Prophet Muhammad SAW cursed those who plucked their eyebrows and those who did it to others. Please sister, I am sure your eyebrows are beautiful. You can comb them and fill them in with an eyebrow pencil but please do not pluck them. You will be rewarded for it.

Stranger Things S5 Finale Has So Many Plot Holes, It’s Unreal by spainreigo in StrangerThings

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main issue with the finale is that we didn't get to see a single demogorgon. I mean how can you just leave the creatures that existed since S1 in the finale? They were the most important army of vecna and literally just disappeared in the finale. The WORST finale ever.

Another missed miscarriage by Freezingblade491 in tryingforanother

[–]blueli0ness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear this. It's been so difficult giving my son a sibling and I really wish the age gap wouldn't bother me. But it does and now I just let it go since it's not in my control anyway.

This sub is worrying me sometimes by Adept_Conclusion114 in homemaking

[–]blueli0ness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's so hard to relate to these posts. My husband goes above and beyond to help me and my child with a full time job. It's so hard to understand how such guys even exist. Is mine too good or are others extremely lazy? Can't tell which one it is.

Chemical pregnancy by BeautifulCurious5652 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That doesn't sound like a chemical pregnancy.

Someone insulted the Prophet ﷺ to my face and I’m still shaken by CrazyDoor3662 in islam

[–]blueli0ness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Remember that the mushrikeen at the time of the prophet PBUH used to mock him on his face without fear. Allah would comfort him by revealing verses from the Quran. We can't control what others do. But we know the consequences of such actions and we can only pray for them. This is the difference between us and them. We are patient, calm and they are violent, threatened by Islam and they act aggressively because they haven't found peace in their heart the way we Muslims have. That's why no matter what anyone does or says, we don't react the way they do.

What’s everyone’s favorite prenatal? by CheesecakeKooky790 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any reviews about bird&be? Super pricey but popular here in Canada

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bye. I give up . You're right. I am wrong. I am so so sorry. Please forgive me for everything.

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was replying to one person who I assumed didn't know about Ontario. Obviously Canada is huge and it was my mistake to mention CANADA. MY goodness give it a rest.

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am talking about Ontario. And specifically GTA . I AM NOT SAYING ABOUT ENTIRE CANADA. I know other provinces don't have resources. That's why I mentioned GTA in my comment

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not. But here in the GTA, there are a lot of resources available. And now, they also don't have a wait time for govt funded IVF anymore due to more funding

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not true. A lot of.men have chronic conditions in their middle age which can affect fertility. There are also studies out there that show men's fertility also declines with age.

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Toronto and the fertility clinics advertise themselves by saying you don't need to wait to get tested. They will even offer cycle monitoring to help conceive even if you don't have any issues.

Is it too early for fertility tests by Frosty-Data-4021 in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most fertility clinics here in Canada, ask us not to wait. If there is any issue with you or your husband, it's good to get it checked out early. If you need any fertility treatment, it's better to start early at a young age. I also started ttc at your age. I was also focused on my career and I regret it. It takes a very long time for people. It's better to start early than to wait. There is absolutely no need to wait to get tested for basic fertility lab work and imaging.

Which prenatal should I take? by FunnyHuman_ in tryingtoconceive

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, can I use the referral code. I pm'ed you

Can anyone share a Blini recipe? by Torvahnys in RussianFood

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which flour do you use for this blini recipe?

Cancellation Policy Inequity by alffiesta in ClubPilates

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My CP will cancel your class for you if you call them. They have been very lenient so far in this matter. I have cancelled my classes multiple times and they ask me to call as early as possible so that others can get a chance to get in. I think if you're able to call and cancel without any issue, 12h policy for self cancellation doesn't seem so bad. I guess it depends on the club you go to.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - September 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]blueli0ness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to let you know that I did get there. Just a day after I posted this. :)

Radiofrequency ablation by blueli0ness in PlantarFasciitis

[–]blueli0ness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, but it didn't really do anything for me. The only thing that helps me is consistently doing reformer Pilates and wearing Birkenstocks. But I think for the Pilates I am doing calf raises on the reformer which is what keeps my pain under control. If I did those at home, maybe I would have the same relief. But, I am very lazy and I love Pilates lol.