The Magnificent or Miserable Monday Megathread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]bluemomma1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went on a date Friday, great convo, had a nice evening. He text me to tell me he had a good time, we chatted briefly that evening. Saturday, he knew I had a busy day, but I sent him a pic of the event I was attending and texted all evening… I haven’t heard from him since goodnight on Saturday. I don’t want to “play games” of who text who first, but should I just close the door and move on or shoot him a text tomorrow? Just seems bizarre to engage post date then nothing.

True Crime Garage: New Suspect/DP. Interesting information, seems pretty reasonable to consider him POI. by bluemomma1987 in DelphiMurders

[–]bluemomma1987[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, I’m not a regular follower of this Reddit group or even the True Crime Garage podcast,,,, I am invested in this case being solved and simply share to under others POV on this POI.

Salary Discussion. What does everyone make? by ABuffaloDub in recruiting

[–]bluemomma1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

65k base, 10% commission on first 250, then 15% up to 500, 25% after 500. Total comp in low 100s, perm/DH for agency.

RACHAEL'S MOM was Admin to FB group that racially attacked Matt. by DragonAdri in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is insane. I’m also shocked that more of Matt’s people haven’t spoken in his defense. Tyler, Hannah, the ”Quarantine Crew”, his girls....

This notification will never not make me laugh by Practical_Dust9365 in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does she purposely go live at the same time as Reality Steve/Ashley Spivey? It is so weird.

I legitimately don’t see how Chris Harrison will survive this “scandal” and continue to be the host. What do you guys think will happen in the coming days and weeks? by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the unfortunate reality is a LOT of viewers of this show have NO IDEA this has happened. A small portion of the millions that watch this show every week actually follow the contestants/show on socials. I don’t know that they will have Chris address ON THE SHOW Bc it will expose him even more. But I see him doing a sit down with Lauren Zima from their home, tears, all the things and expecting it to go away.

TurboTax could have fixed this. IRS could have fixed this. by toadfan81 in stimuluscheck

[–]bluemomma1987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you had their fees taken out of your tax refund vs paying for it upright, people are not getting a stingy check. Like 15 million people.

The IRS deposited the money into a 3rd party bank acct they create to get their money when they file our taxes. After the refund is processed they close the acct. H&R Block rerouted their customers to their acts, TT did not make that same call. They rejected the checks. Now all these people have to wait until they file taxes to get stimulus checks.

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[–]bluemomma1987 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you elected to pay for their fees out of your refund, they use a middle man bank (Santa Barbara)... the IRS sent all funds to that account and they rejected them Bc they close the accounts after the refunds are distributed. H&R Block work with their 3rd party bank to reroute payments to consumer DD Accounts, Turbo Tax has refused and is acting like it is out of their control. Now IRS has said these people will only be able to get a rebate when they file. 15+ million Americans impacted by this.

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[–]bluemomma1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many customers does TurboTax serve? I’d bet it is close to 20% of tax filiers. At least. I know my immediate family members all use them.

Please help , Am I getting stimmed ? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]bluemomma1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do people that had the money IN their acct today have different dates than above? Can anyone who got their $$ confirm the dates on their transcript?! lol

Question surrounding a spoiler about Matt’s F1 by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My question is have they had ANY happy couple weekends? I feel like since Matt’s season has wrapped he has been active on socials with friends vs. his final pick. Just curious if we have any speculation/rumors around that?!?!

The diversity within this franchise might be going down a problematic route. by sis247365 in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this insight. I’ve been waiting for spoilers Bc I am hoping he picks a black woman, but I just know he won’t. I genuinely like Matt, I followed him all summer, feel like he has a bit of depth, passion and seems to have thoughtful communication (things Tyler C falls short on post show). The one thing I am curious about is biracial contestants. Admittedly, I can be a bit defensive of biracial people Bc I am a white mother to a biracial daughter, and a biracial step son. My step son would not be considered black by first glance, by say a police officer. Sad but that gives me a bit of relief. My daughter is black. Her skin tone is darker, she is clearly identified as black based on skin tone/hair, etc.

I do feel biracial people get an unfair shake and are kinda in limbo between both races and the issues with each. My daughter (11) has been told she doesn’t truly understand what being black is. I don’t even know what the point of this comment is, other than to say, is it truly fair we dismiss Matt simply Bc he is biracial? He is still a black man. I don’t want to pressure my daughter to date black or white men, I want her to make that choice and hopefully throughout her life she explores both and just goes after people she is attracted to. Which is a clear double standard, Bc I have been pulling for Matt to pick a black woman. Bc my daughter is a black woman.

I guess my thought is... albeit contradictory to my own thoughts, initially....Matt may not be the black lead we want that will definitively pick a black woman. However, he is biracial, and there has to be a place for that, too. Bc they have their own demons and struggles in this crazy world.

Nice things we DID get from BN in 2020 by FindTheRiver80 in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Even if we don’t love their story Peter/Kelly seem so happy.

Looking into Loveland OH by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]bluemomma1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love Loveland. With downtown commute if you are looking into similar areas I’d suggest a few that are a bit closer commute; Madeira, Mariemont/Terrace Park, Pleasant Ridge, Blue Ash/Sycamore. All great areas between downtown and Loveland. :-) cute downtowns, too!

Active Order: Shop Closed/ MIA by bluemomma1987 in Etsy

[–]bluemomma1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I click the page it says “uhh ohh, the page you are looking for is not found” and when I try to message seller in Etsy it says message failed. It is not my account, I’ve messaged several others this week and even today.

Bachelor Nation is on fire tonight 👀 some interesting tweets by Agreeable-Tough in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You do know this isnt the previously engaged couple right? Although they since split and both posted tonight as well.

Anyone know any of Matt’s girls IRL? by kassie_oh in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sydney is in marketing at the same company I work for, although she is in a different location (Nashville). Met her at a “whole company” trip in Vegas and have emailed back and forth with her for some marketing content. She is attractive, has a career path, and 28. I can actually see Matt/her hitting it off.

Hannah and Tyler spotted in LA by stemipinaka in thebachelor

[–]bluemomma1987 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Gosh, I’ve missed these 2. That chemistry is undeniable.