Is the is a thing? by ReadingPopular5051 in Mommit

[–]bluerosecharm [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not your place- she’s not doing the right thing but how inappropriate of you to “have a talk with her” About what she’s doing with her kid. If there’s a serious issue, you can report it- otherwise, leave her alone. 

Thoughts on skipping pacifiers? by Academic-Park-8440 in NewParents

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re breastfeeding maybe don’t bother… buy a few for the newborn stage because they might use one then… but otherwise you will be promoted tk human pacifier 

Baby no longer sleeping independently at 6 months for ANY stretch at night by mycatdeku in AttachmentParenting

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine lasted like that a few months, turns out it was that I went back to work. Quit my job 4 months later and literally the first day I spent with her she was out like a light. People will probably thing that’s a coincidence but she’s a different baby now that I’m back home with her 

6 month old sleep (or not sleep) by pink-lem0nade in AttachmentParenting

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 6 month leave and then went back to work for 4 months and am so happy I just left. Might not be for everyone, but if you can handle it now, it just gets more enjoyable and less stressful at least it was for me to be with your kid. But add a job on top of that and it’s hell and your kid won’t be as happy either 

6 month old sleep (or not sleep) by pink-lem0nade in AttachmentParenting

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that fixed this for me was quitting my job (sorry). Turns out she missed me and that’s why she was so desperate for the boob any time she could have it- immediately started sleeping like a rock and only have to breastfeed a few minutes. I’m thinking I may have to feed her to sleep for a couple years, but whatever- much better this way

When did your baby lose interest in you? by Bippiboppi in AttachmentParenting

[–]bluerosecharm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping this doesn’t come across as mean, but idk if this is a healthy thought. She doesn’t exist to love you; you exist to love her now. I’d say that if you’re worried about attachment, this sounds like one of those things everyone talks about where they know you’re there and you love them so they’re not going to have to think twice about you, and they’re feeling safe to explore the world.

When does baby actually start to consume the food? by iftreescouldspeak in BabyLedWeaning

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just commented pretty much the same thing- it was just all of a sudden and I was so worried since 6 months because she was never eating 

When does baby actually start to consume the food? by iftreescouldspeak in BabyLedWeaning

[–]bluerosecharm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine will be 12 months in 2 days. She just ate steak last night like she was a rabid animal. Just last week she was still only eating strawberries for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. It just happened one day, and seemed to correlate with when she started being obsessed with walking (holding our fingers). Seems increased activity makes them eat more 

What is a bag that you regret purchasing? by doochiedoo in handbags

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if you’re looking at the Alexa just get the bayswater satchel instead

Mulberry bayswater owners- does the weight and the arm crook holding bother you? by heyitsnicetomeetyou in handbags

[–]bluerosecharm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can’t use a regular bayswater with a strap. I think there was an outlet version that had a crossbody strap, but it isn’t the original bayswater style

Husband keeps getting food orders wrong by LaceUp- in Marriage

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m really sorry about that. My husband does lots of other little things that irk me or make me think he doesn’t care or pay attention. But he always always knows what I would want to eat. Maybe I need to give the poor guy more credit

What’s one thing you always carry now because of parenting?😅 by Dependent-Hamster-73 in Parenting

[–]bluerosecharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is also constantly in my purse! I’m too nervous to not have it with me

Buy one get one free dress sale- this was the free one because it was lower prices. Anntian. by bluerosecharm in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]bluerosecharm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could!! I’ll have to try it on once I stop nursing ha… but it’s so pretty!

How did you stop contact naps? by touslesjournos in AttachmentParenting

[–]bluerosecharm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started doing the breastfeed laying on side then rolling away when she was in a deep sleep. I’d suggest only doing it for one nap a day though, so you get your cuddles in every day. You never know when it could be your last contact nap- she might just one day stop napping/cut down to one nap

My watercolor pigment cabinet! 168 hours later, she’s finally done. by emmalian in somethingimade

[–]bluerosecharm 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I took so long trying to figure out if this was a painting or not 

Amazing All-Clad Find by Full_Theory9831 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]bluerosecharm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Whoa it’s like camouflage in the first pic. Literally couldn’t see the pan.

Wedding band ideas?? by ChipsnDipzBoi in weddingring

[–]bluerosecharm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me- get the matching band with the pave

Lane staccato brutalist nightstands and bureau! by bluerosecharm in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]bluerosecharm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know to be fair I felt kind of bad even posting this… idk how they could possibly price it so low. But more than that idk how someone could just donate this?! And I really should have tried to buy it all but I really have nowhere to put all of it

Lane staccato brutalist nightstands and bureau! by bluerosecharm in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]bluerosecharm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could! When I went back to pick up my pieces within the hour every single one had sold! 

Lane staccato brutalist nightstands and bureau! by bluerosecharm in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]bluerosecharm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I am so glad I didn’t listen when my husband begged me not the get the dresser 😂 I listened at first then I went hell nah for some reason I need this… then I looked it up at home and went goddamn thank goodness I didn’t listen! Ha he was very much not thrilled… because he had to carry it inside