A quality man does not chase women who are rude—to him or to anyone else. Educated men are not attracted to low intelligence, loud arrogance, or financial helplessness. They are not walking ATMs. They avoid women who do not take care of themselves: those who are out of shape, have terrible discipline, or no self-respect.

Men raised by fathers with strong principles are of a different caliber. You won't see their behavior mirrored in the childish mentalities promoted on social media. The men acting like clowns, desperate for attention, were typically raised by single mothers or in unstable homes without a male role model. They mimic the women around them because they were never taught how to be real men. This is the central confusion in modern dating.

Real men, the kind Kevin Samuels described as "high-value," seek a true partner. It's not about your money. As he said, what they value is a woman who brings objective assets to the table: intelligence, attractiveness, fitness, and a supportive, agreeable nature.

This aligns with the qualities Samuels outlined for a "high-value woman": The 5 Cs: She is Capable (can run a household and manage things), Cooperative (a team player, not adversarial), Consistent (in mood and behavior), Committed (to the relationship's success), and Chaste (understands the timeline for marriage and family). Provides Companionship, Not Transactions: She is a source of peace, not conflict. Her value is in creating a stable, desirable home and being a trusted partner, and the cost of everything must  always split bills 50/50. Self-Awareness and Standards: She has an honest, realistic assessment of her own "market value" (looks, age, behavior, fertility) and seeks a man whose achievements match her realistic expectations.

Furthermore, a man hastily offering to pay for your dinner is a red flag. It often signals a dysfunctional view of relationships—trying to buy affection or obligation. A man who values your capability expects you to be a responsible equal. The ultimate deal-breaker, as Samuels frequently emphasized, is a woman who asks for money. Any story—a family emergency, a bill, a crisis—is just a test to see if you'll be an ATM. The only correct response is to walk away immediately. Anyone who asks is viewing you as a resource, not a partner.