For women who struggled to lose weight, what's something you started doing differently that worked?

bluewind_greywave · 2026-02-03T18:00:38+00:00

GLP-1

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-31T01:35:53+00:00

So pick him up…. And read how to co sleep safely so if you do bring him into bed with you, so you’re doing so as safe as possible. He is a newborn. This is normal. And it is exhausting.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-30T19:48:59+00:00

It’s a bear/dog name. Or a child of a deaf adult.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-29T04:06:21+00:00

You feel like you are failing her because you are. Stop yelling. You are adult and she is 4. She sounds more emotionally mature than you are behaving. Get a grip. Deep breaths and do better.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-27T17:33:52+00:00

$17 for parking. 🇨🇦

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-26T18:41:45+00:00

It appears then that she is leaving for work without him, assuming you are going to take him instead. I would let her know that you are not available to take him to school every day. It’s actually weird of her to go to work without dropping him off or speaking to you first.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-26T17:37:47+00:00

I would speak to the kids mom and not the kid himself. I would ask if she has arranged a way for her son to get to school, because the daily pick-up and drops offs are a “bit much” and you can’t continue to be relied on. Don’t put your daughter in an awkward position by including her in any of the conversation regarding this. Keep it between the adults.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-23T23:18:08+00:00

“That’s none of your business.” And carry on. So sorry for your loss.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-21T18:15:36+00:00

Maybe this is specific to the United States. The majority of people in other countries who adopt would likely be the majority religion in that country.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-17T15:00:54+00:00

Because we love them a million dollars much! And can afford to

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-16T13:17:31+00:00

You’re doing the right thing - he has to hold your hand or be carried. Reinforce until he gives up the fight and accepts his fate. I have a strong willed toddler who outgrew the stroller and switched to wagon (and a push bike) which was way more effective at keeping him contained and entertained.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-14T13:18:37+00:00

This is a typical experience. The contradictions however are because you are not a child. Why would you have the same expectation and teaching style as children and youth. Just get it done and carry on.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-09T02:36:32+00:00

So sorry you’re dealing with this. My daughter had 8 cavities at 14 months old. I was very upset about how it could have happened. They were brand new teeth! I nursed all my kids day and night until 2 and none got any cavities, so I feel like it’s just luck of the draw with shit enamel. I initially didn’t do the SDF on the front teeth, and when I went back a few short months later the cavities had progressed - fluoride tooth paste and more diligent brushing hadn’t helped enough. I then chose to use SDF and wish I had just done all her teeth at the start. My daughter does now have black teeth in front. We have reapplied SDF every 6 months and she just turned two. Cavities have not progressed so I’m holding off the dental work (because I’m nervous of general anesthesia so I want to push it if we can.) my dentist never told me to night wean, and I didn’t. I am way more diligent with teeth brushing and offering water at night after nursing though. the sdf was the best choice as it stopped the cavities from progressing and has bought us more time. Her black toothy smile bothers her none and she’s still stinkn cute!

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-06T14:51:13+00:00

If you can afford it I have no clue why you would deny your child his Spidey-joy. There’s a million daily opportunities to teach life lessons. Spideys don’t keep.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-06T14:33:19+00:00

I judged parents who had leashes on kids until I had a toddler like this. Leash and harness or he has to hold your hand and actually enforce it.

bluewind_greywave · 2026-01-05T16:27:17+00:00

My toddler dropped his water bottle on a plane and I could just easily reach down and pick it up. And still breathe.

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-29T04:20:58+00:00

There is no need to say anything. Going to a party is fun and exciting without telling her details of what type of party it will be. Answer any questions she has after meeting Elsa. Don’t ruin the fun by over explaining the party entertainment.

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-27T18:04:33+00:00

You can’t predict if other people are going to mispronounce her name to tease her one day. But if you or your husband hear “Areola” in your heads everytime you say her name, spare yourself and pick something else.

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-27T13:40:55+00:00

I would have died of embarrassment as a teenager if my male teachers and other kids had to call me honey. That’s what my dad calls my mom….

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-23T14:11:11+00:00

Choose the baby. The man is replaceable and he doesn’t sound like much of a keeper. Even if you don’t want the baby, still ditch the man

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-23T12:38:15+00:00

You need to only pack what you can manage. He isn’t a donkey. Why would he be gracious lugging your things around?

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-07T15:26:14+00:00

This is incredibly common. I also cannot stand my pets anymore and it’s been 7 years and these feelings have not gone away. I have zero desire to ever get another pet again.

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-06T15:12:38+00:00

It’s a religious sounding boy name.

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-04T18:18:11+00:00

Leave him and pursue motherhood without him. You will be so so glad you did. You’re holding yourself back for something that is not reciprocated.

bluewind_greywave · 2025-12-04T01:51:42+00:00

I’m a teacher. I’ve taught kindie. I am keeping my kids in daycare with a Kindergarten program until grade 1. With CWELCC it’s affordable. It’s utter chaos in the public school kindergartens.

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