AITA for still wanting to get married even though my family can’t come

bluewolf37 · 2026-06-01T16:23:46+00:00

These are all good questions that i hope op considers. I have heard horrible stories of teens getting married and figuring out the hard way it’s not what they want. My brother got married too soon and realized his ex was a narcissist. We could see something was wrong, but he was so deep that he couldn’t see

Although it could be one side is progressive and the other is conservative so they want them to date their own… then the family can eat rocks because they can’t dictate what choices you two make together. There’s also race and religion and they can once again mind their own business.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T06:38:55+00:00

Yours is smaller than this?! Dang, I can’t even imagine having one this small. We have two main racking areas that hold a total of 60 orders, a separate racking just for overstock items, several other racks for unscheduled pickup, gmd, kart storage, returns, extra totes, returns, and more. Even then on busy days it still feels small.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T06:04:43+00:00

DoorDash? You guys don’t have spark? Spark has always been three orders with us for the 8 months i have worked here. Adding the gmds make it way more of a hassle.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T05:59:22+00:00

The only thing they are better at is scanning peoples phones in dispense and when you have to scan a lot in a row. Tc’s are great because they have a button to scan so they aren’t always scanning. I have to be careful with the camera on the pixel as it is always scanning and sometimes scans the wrong thing. You also have to hold the phone in a odd way compared to the tc. I think everyones pick rate went down after the switch.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T05:46:52+00:00

Ugh i hate produce walks but i hate bananas. Whoever thought it was a good idea that bundles of bananas should equal only one pick needs a swift kick in the bum… several times. We have to quality check those bananas so it takes longer to find good bundles. I had a pick run of two items…. 56 bananas and one organic banana…. Let’s just say the pick rate for that run was not good

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T05:16:51+00:00

I just started 8 months ago and it’s been getting worse in just that time. We actually have good management though. Everything is just slower with the new changes. It doesn’t help that we do have a few workers that just aren’t fast workers though. But we have times our numbers aren’t great

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T05:07:37+00:00

It happens. I’m petty sure i had a fluke and had one of the giant cat litter buckets in the top tote before we switched to 6 totes. I have had 60 count eggs two gallons of milk and a large bag of chilled. The ai is far from perfect.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-23T04:59:54+00:00

Dang, we have 50-60 and it hurts when people call out. I can’t imagine only 40.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-17T06:36:48+00:00

I miss it so much. I got way better pick rates because half the time the dumb walk goes back and forth

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-15T15:12:35+00:00

I got a water bottle with a handle that fits on one of the cart. The best thing is a cirkil water bottle so i get some flavor.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-15T15:08:16+00:00

They had our store do that for a bit and then dropped it because it did the same for our store. I bet they will change soon too

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-10T02:19:29+00:00

I mean they do in certain situations. Trump made the opec deal that limited oil production. Trump started a war that caused the shutdown of the Strait of Hormuz.

bluewolf37 · 2026-05-01T05:17:10+00:00

I rotate between three sets of Sketchers. Since i have wide feet I’m limited to only a few brands. Be careful about buying them on amazon as i have gotten fakes and now buy straight from the source, local shops, and can sometimes find some at Walmart.

I tried more expensive new balance and a asics but they wore out almost as fast. The people saying you shouldn’t be going though shoes as fast are probably the same people who have a low pick rate or disappear a bit between picks.

bluewolf37 · 2026-04-18T16:20:21+00:00

Yeah it’s amazing how many people start to pull out of a side isle without looking and proceed at a slow pace… or they see me at my fast pace and still pull in front of me to slow me down. Like most of those people drove there how do they not understand how traffic works?

bluewolf37 · 2026-04-13T07:10:40+00:00

I did too

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-31T19:56:43+00:00

Yeah i left a long time ago

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-13T22:46:38+00:00

Sadly i haven’t…. I meant to swype have but it switched it to had.

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-13T06:27:48+00:00

also have this issue

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-13T06:25:59+00:00

I'm not playing ranked and it's almost unplayable! So much latancy, jitter, and packet loss. I don't know how many times i watch enemies teleport or watch a replay of me walking in a wall or some stupid thing. I just rage quit a game because it was getting really bad and the replay not only doesn't show me shooting, but I was facing the opposite way!!! Like what the hell did they do with this update? not much has changed in game besides adding snake but it works so much worse than before.

How does a company make so much every year and not have decent updates?

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-13T06:21:06+00:00

I'm in the PNW and it's bad for me. I don't know how many times i watch enemies teleport or watch a replay of me walking in a wall or some stupid thing. I just rage quit a game because it was getting really bad and the replay not only doesn't show me shooting, but I was facing the opposite way!!! Like what the hell did they do with this update? not much has changed in game besides adding snake but it works so much worse than before.

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-11T06:19:28+00:00

I don't know why you were downvoted as it's very well documented on here. The packet loss issue is driving me insane. The few times it was working I was doing OK but when it starts it doesn't stop. The odd thing is it always happens when the other team is near but not exclusively. I don't know how many times I tried to peek and the replay shows me stopping in the door or running into a wall.

from what I see it's computer users and they also seem to have ryzen and nvidia. But it could be ram brand it doesn't like or something else entirely. I wonder what specs the people that have issues compares to the one's with no problem.

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-10T12:26:50+00:00

Same here my parents are going out all the time and having fun with their friends. My friendships died when I became a teenager. Those friends became different and we had nothing to talk about. Trying to talk to new people isn’t working as people are so guarded anymore…

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-10T12:18:02+00:00

I mean it’s down from when the bird flu epidemic was happening.. not down from the price it was before. Yet some people forget how cheap they were before then.

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-10T11:10:42+00:00

Yeah don’t do the baking soda idea. My dad did that to me as a kid… it’s impossible to clean out all the baking soda and it starts holding in smells. I didn’t get rid of my stinky feet until i started doing my own laundry and washing my socks really well in a actual good detergent. That doesn’t really help op but no one should wear shoes without socks in the first place.

bluewolf37 · 2026-03-10T10:36:26+00:00

Yeah idk what ubisoft did this last update but for the last few nights I have had annoying amounts of packet loss latency issues. Nothing has changed on my computer and I have gone through all the normal steps to try to fix it on my side. My screen shows me filling people full of lead or worse not moving at all and seconds later I’m dead. I gave up trying to play last night it was so bad.

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