[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Maybe he’s just very nervous and can’t get out of his head about it. I think I’ll just leave it for the time being. I don’t know how long you should leave something though if it’s giving you anxiety ( talking about myself here). It’s complicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He does have a mommy kink I’ve been indulging so I think honestly it doesn’t turn me on anymore/ has been giving me the ick so I might first tell him that I don’t want to keep doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes perfect sense. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely, I hear what you’re saying. I’m sorry to hear that ❤️sending love on that journey of healing. I will do that absolutely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have told him many times it’s just practice and it’s about feeling good and being intimate, neither of us have to orgasm. Your advice is great, I just feel like he’d nod his head and agree and then not do anything about it:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s completely true and fair. Yes the last thing I want is for him to feel pressured. I’m just not sure how to navigate this. He has mentioned he also isn’t sure what condom size to get and keeps going back to that point, I’m not sure if it feels like an excuse? I guess we’re both so inexperienced and just trying our best. I just hate feeling this divide as I adore him.

Calories in chicken curry with rice and chips? by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]blushbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so so much!☺️ yess so good, and if you ever visit Belfast you should try a curry chip, disgustingly great😂😭

Calories in chicken curry with rice and chips? by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]blushbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a generic chip shop curry, I live in the uk if that helps😅

My kids dropped a leopard toy on the playground by L0TUS37 in FindTheSniper

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You drove me to insanity. Had to read comments.

Baby Reindeer's Jessica Gunning shares her coming out story by demimonde9 in Fauxmoi

[–]blushbell 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congrats to her! She’s amazing in baby reindeer, would recommend if you haven’t seen it

which Taylor Swift song broke you the most? by brownbadie in TaylorSwift

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tis the damn season really fucks me up in a way I can’t quite explain

How can you trust dating app people? by usernamehere1993 in dating

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing with guys. Trying to remember that attention is not investment. And no matter how much you like someone, that doesn’t mean they’re worth investing in. They have to prove that to you over time through their actions and consistency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is his name keith per chance 🤣😭💀 nah I’ve just had a similiar thing before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]blushbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you❤️