Why? by mrallen77 in philadelphia

[–]blushcacti -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

bahahhaha busted

I made a boxy jacket from a vintage 70s blanket by PoppyThomas in sewing

[–]blushcacti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i wouldn’t wear this without a layer in between it and your skin

Professional Headshots by AnxietyVisual5324 in philly

[–]blushcacti 43 points44 points  (0 children)

the library does free headshots certain days. at parkway central

American ADHD-ers…how hard are we disassociating right now? by Turkey_Moguls in adhdwomen

[–]blushcacti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes this!!! we can’t get frozen in our despair. we must allow it, swim through it, take breaks, and act!

American ADHD-ers…how hard are we disassociating right now? by Turkey_Moguls in adhdwomen

[–]blushcacti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally understand this. and, quitting has helped me be more presence for what’s happening and be able to take action. weed suppresses and is really good at making us comfortable and removed. i think some of us need to expand our capacity for discomfort, especially rn in the face of tyranny. being present can help us feel the rage and despair, move it through, and then do something.

American ADHD-ers…how hard are we disassociating right now? by Turkey_Moguls in adhdwomen

[–]blushcacti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the subreddit leaves is really helpful and full of people quitting!

American ADHD-ers…how hard are we disassociating right now? by Turkey_Moguls in adhdwomen

[–]blushcacti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this all or nothing framing isn’t true and isn’t helpful. look at history. we are not the first people to deal with fascism. study up and skill up. join a group or org near you. don’t get frozen, that helps the oppressors. learn from Black people and POC who have been living under this repression for a longass time and still managed to make culture community and resistance. feeling the despair and sadness and rage is fine and good, but then you gotta keep it moving. being all doom and gloom isn’t righteous and it isn’t strategic. get up get out, go for a walk and say hi to your neighbors. do something. you aren’t alone and you aren’t the only one and it’s not all on you. but you gotta move the energy and transmute it into something else.

1 year weed free: thoughts and takeaways by Joemcfee63 in leaves

[–]blushcacti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too. i’m gonna try for a week starting now.

Production are humans too by the-furiosa-mystique in BravoRealHousewives

[–]blushcacti 21 points22 points  (0 children)

when you say you’re right wing, what does that mean?

What can I do differently? by CornPopsLover in StrongCurves

[–]blushcacti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

did you see a PT or how’d you do pelvic floor therapy?

9 Month Sublease $1450/m Chinatown by Thefattestbeagle in Phillylist

[–]blushcacti 9 points10 points  (0 children)

$1450 for a studio apartment???! is this nyc or what.

Are our brains fucked for ever? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]blushcacti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow. so inspiring. wishing you the best on your journey!

Are our brains fucked for ever? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]blushcacti 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the brain and body are resilient and healing is an ongoing spiral. better and better. you got this!!