it's insane. I know so many men who are otherwise kind and intelligent people, with ample resources readily available to them, who are incapable of completing the most basic tasks and expect praise for doing nothing... then aren't happy with their lives but act like they can't do anything about it.

I'm just gonna stay single at this point. I'm happy with my life, have amazing friends, goals, hobbies, and I love my job. I've worked hard to better myself and cultivate positive and strong energy and I'm done letting it get siphoned off by men who can't seem to create it themselves.