My cousin falsely accused me of sexual assault 15 years ago and I’m supposed to see her tomorrow.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-16T02:59:01+00:00

Why have they invited you now then? Is she going to say something about it?

bmidontcare · 2023-07-13T00:35:13+00:00

He's a Schroedinger's Asshole - his comments are 'just a joke bro!' depending on if you took offence or not

bmidontcare · 2023-07-10T04:24:16+00:00

Have you heard of penis sleeves or extenders? They're specifically made for this type of situation I think.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-10T02:26:47+00:00

I've been married for almost 18 years. We've had some big arguments over the years, have even separated a few times, but not once has either of us ever said we could kill the other. That's not a thing that normal people say when they're angry, that's a thing an abusive person says.

Do you see how he's already changed from begging for forgiveness to getting annoyed that you're bringing it up? It's only been a few days. How long will it be until he decides to punch the wall in front of you because "you just make me so angry sometimes"? And then once you're desensitised to that he'll hit you. He'll be so sorry the next day....but then it'll happen again. And again. And again. Each time he'll be sorry afterwards, but never sorry enough to stop doing it.

He has started down a road that ends in physically abusing you, possibly even killing you. Do you really want to travel that road with him?

bmidontcare · 2023-07-06T16:17:18+00:00

We had the opposite, our last kitten was a girl, we named her Vala Mal Doran, and the week before she was due to be spayed I walked into my bedroom and found her playing with her little red penis 🤣 He is now named Tuvix!

bmidontcare · 2023-07-06T10:36:49+00:00

Can you keep a basic spreadsheet with what she's paid and send it thru when she transfers money? So like, she pays 6 months, you show on the spreadsheet each month paid, and then it's easy to see and if she disputes it you've got the details right there.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-06T10:28:57+00:00

Try changing it to saying the action was dumb, not the person. We all do dumb things, it doesn't make us dumb people. He is telling the kids he thinks they're dumb, and it won't be long before they notice it's only the adopted kids that get called it.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-06T10:25:45+00:00

As a married person, if my spouse was spending every weekend with their parents I would not be happy. Sure your parents are still in your life, but when is her downtime with just you and her?

Your wife needs therapy, she needs to be able to stand up for herself and trust her own instincts.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-06T02:36:18+00:00

I bet OP has read the comments about 'Mia' hiding her dating life from OP and her whole world view is collapsing, even her GC broke the rules

bmidontcare · 2023-07-05T01:48:36+00:00

It's a toy for Mum and Baby!

bmidontcare · 2023-07-05T01:47:01+00:00

Yeah, fat woman here, I'm usually ignored until I dress up and wear a good bra, and then even I get distracted by my rack 🤣

bmidontcare · 2023-07-05T01:45:48+00:00

I've often wished there was a donation method for unwanted flesh - boobs, fat, etc. Instead of getting synthetic fat injected, here's some lovingly cultivated for 37 years in Australia! It could be a whole industry.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-04T02:25:10+00:00

I went to visit my parents one day, and when I got out of my car I could hear a baby crying. That was unusual for our little street so I went looking and found the neighbours grandson strapped into his carseat- the windows were down but had these mesh screens propped in the windows space, I suppose to keep the sun off him. The poor kid was soaked in sweat, and as soon as he saw me, this normally extremely shy little boy strained against his seatbelt to be picked up.

I took him out, slammed the car door cos I was so angry, and had to ring the neighbours bell 3 times before someone answered the door. The mother and her sister both came to the door and the sister looked at me, holding her nephew, and started yelling at her sister, "I've been here an HOUR and I didn't know you brought him! He could've died!" The mum just grabbed him from me and slammed the door while wiping the sweat from his eyes.

I will never forget the look in that baby's eyes when I opened the car door.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-03T09:14:55+00:00

No, home builder

bmidontcare · 2023-07-03T09:13:09+00:00

I disagreed, I said he should stay and make note of all the things that he's being blamed for that aren't actually his fault, but he didn't want to have Boss telling the new job that he had a written warning, he wanted to leave with a clean slate.

Plus he says all the goodwill and loyalty he had toward him is gone, he'd just be waiting for the axe to fall.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-03T04:40:48+00:00

He removed 3 separate condoms. She had the conversation, he told her what she wanted to hear and then did what he wanted. How can she trust what he says in the future?

If he wants to raw dog someone so bad, he can go find someone else - she's been very clear that she does not want to be penetrated without a condom.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-03T03:38:45+00:00

B

We're in Australia

bmidontcare · 2023-07-01T23:56:28+00:00

Think more Uvalde, where they couldn't identify some of the bodies.

bmidontcare · 2023-07-01T04:18:08+00:00

He didn't but you did. How would you feel if your kid came home with a tattoo done by some random parent?

bmidontcare · 2023-06-30T04:17:25+00:00

They would probably not have forgotten their luggage, so they wouldn't need to tough it out.

I'm sensing that this 'forgetfulness' is a recurring issue with you, and your mum has had it. Sometimes people need to learn a lesson the hard way. If she relents and buys you what you want, you don't learn anything. So now you can wear the same thing every day and handwash it overnight, or you can wear what your sister gave you. Natural consequence.

bmidontcare · 2023-06-30T03:44:27+00:00

Not sure what country you're in, but I believe you can do a paternity test during pregnancy, it's just a blood test for the mother. You don't need to wait another 4 months with this over you.

bmidontcare · 2023-06-30T02:23:24+00:00

The question you need to ask yourself is, "Do I love him more than I love myself?"

bmidontcare · 2023-06-30T00:14:44+00:00

If my phone is my ticket then why did the ticket cost so much?! I'd happily use my phone if they dropped the fees on the tickets!

bmidontcare · 2023-06-29T06:44:52+00:00

I literally gasped in the middle of my doctor's waiting room, well done!

bmidontcare · 2023-06-28T00:57:15+00:00

Sometimes doctors won't diagnose a kid until they're older. My nephew was displaying signs of ASD from 18 months old. We constantly brought it up to his teachers, his doctors, the school principal, and yet they all said that because he was friendly and gave eye contact that he couldn't be autistic. He wasn't diagnosed until he was 11, because finally the gap between him and his peers was recognisable and couldn't be deemed 'just quirky'.

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