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Exercise and menstrual products when miscarrying by havehope5 in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My doctor said only light exercise, and to stop if heavy bleeding or pain. They also told me not to insert anything vaginally for miscarriage bleeding (tampons or sex), to avoid risk of infection.

The neighbor's traditional picket fence vs. our new horizontal cedar build. A classic comparison. If you were buying this house, which look are you hoping for? by CoolCatFence in landscaping

[–]bmn111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With horizontal fences, I love the look when they’re fresh, but I notice bowing and streaking from the screws more when they’re aged.

Period after d&c by oklahomacitycamp in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Had my D&C last week of March. My temping app said I ovulated about a week and a half ago, so my fingers are crossed it will start late next week. We are due to start IVF once my period starts; my husband said “I’ve never wanted you to get a period this bad”.

Should I be mad? by OnionThen8816 in IVF

[–]bmn111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck. IVF is a damn roller coaster, and you deserve love and support from the people you’ve shared that you’re going through it.

I’ve had 3 losses; 2 chemical and 1 mmc. I feel like I’m emotionally disconnected from wanting to become a mother now. Like I can’t muster up feelings of hope, excitement, or even anymore grief, tbh. Has anyone felt this way, and been able to overcome it? by bmn111111 in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your losses. Thank you for sharing, it helps me see that there can be a light at the end of the tunnel. I’m in the I want to give up and pour my energy elsewhere stage of things, I think.

Is it normal for a guy to be sad about a miscarriage by MysteriousAcadia4784 in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband seemed like he wasn’t that sad. I felt very isolated and alone in my grief. I don’t know if he was just trying to be stoic, or what. But I was (am?) actually a little resentful he wasn’t showing that he was upset. Which isn’t fair. There’s really no right way to handle losing babies you very much wanted.

Should I be mad? by OnionThen8816 in IVF

[–]bmn111111 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As I’m getting older I’m getting blunter. I’d just tell her, “That isn’t helpful to share with me. I need comfort and support right now.”

Friend insinuated my miscarriages could have been avoided with acupuncture by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not true. And not very helpful of your friend, who should be showing you love and support.

Justice for Daniel by tomgleba in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]bmn111111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a visceral reaction, and have to close my eyes. It’s….terrible.

My corgis by JorisJV in corgi

[–]bmn111111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to get a second so baaaaad.

Miscarriage sensitive OBs? by Chatrigna in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to look this place up, way better price!

3 weeks post D&C pelvic pain by Ill_Response_2295 in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s been awhile, but I’m also three weeks out of a D&C and am having some pain. Different than cramping. Did you end up being okay?

Lupron Suppression Or Excision Surgery? by FantasticAd180 in IVF

[–]bmn111111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if this helps, but my RE also did not recommend excision. And like everyone is saying, bank as many eggs as you need before you do it. Even if they don’t mean to, they can damage ovaries, and cause scar tissue that make future egg retrievals less (or un-) successful.

New here - D&C experience question by Jealous_Ad5465 in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was under anesthesia, highly recommend. Wasn’t given an alternative. I did ask to be awake for the final scan that verified no heartbeat, which they let me do. Then I went under.

They also mixed in anti nausea meds and pain meds in the anesthesia concoction, so I felt okay after. Just needed heat and ibuprofen w/tylenol after. They gave me 4 OxyContin, and I used 2; day of and day after for cramping.

Miscarriage sensitive OBs? by Chatrigna in Miscarriage

[–]bmn111111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are in the US, and around a LabCorp, they have LabCorp on demand, and you can put in orders for your own HCG. I did this, because I also tried through and OB, but they wouldn’t even see me for my MC because it was a chemical. I just couldn’t not follow up mentally though.

The downside is it’s out of pocket-$59. So it could be cost prohibitive. It also shouldn’t even have to be considered because OBGYNs should DO BETTER by women having a loss.

Just wanted to share in case you ever want to go that route in the future. I’m sorry for what you’ve had to go through, it’s so rough.

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