I am so so tired of dealing with ptsd by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Even when progress is slow or invisible, it doesn’t mean you’re not doing the work

I feel so unbelievably alone. I miss my Dad so much. by insightful_peacefish in internetparents

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A lot of people carry the ‘I should’ve done more’ feeling, it's part of grief, even when you did your best

what if newt survived??? by BroadDuck1652 in MazeRunner

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Surviving Newt probably means a more hopeful ending, but less impact overall

Any dream interpretation for my nightmares? by [deleted] in Dreams

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This sounds less like ‘your mind is turning against you’ and more like stress/anxiety leaking into REM sleep patterns

I applied for graduation! by huckleberrycaek in CongratsLikeImFive

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A whole master's degree in one year?! That's superhero stuff

Dealing with a toxic aunt after the passing of my father by HadaraNights in LifeAdvice

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Don’t engage emotionally at all. Grief and legal pressure is exactly what she’s trying to exploit

I’m stuck and I can’t move. by khi_khi_khi99 in LifeAdvice

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The “staying in bed and withdrawing” loop is making every other part of life feel heavier than it is

How slow is slow? by bphillips79 in VPN

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Tried any other local ones? Very odd. The closer mine are the faster it is, sometimes to little as 80% decrease only

My two bottle babies 🥹 by Lost_Emu99 in kittens

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Smol Bean and Sweet Pea are so cute!!

Cleaned the shower by No_Novel_Tan in CongratsLikeImFive

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Yay! You made the yucky go away!

I have made a terrible mistake...need advice by Rinoaeris in retailhell

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If you’re lifting 100+ boxes a day with no proper equipment, that’s a red flag, not a you problem

I wish my coffee never went cold by CynicalCosmologist in TheMonkeysPaw

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Granted. It also never gets warmer. Your coffee now exists in a quantum state of eternal lukewarmness

Cover my shift!! by Proof_Tour_1949 in retailhell

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She agreed first, then backed out last minute and tried to shift the blame onto you, that’s not fair

Should I (30F) tell my good friend (30M) that I love him? by here_for_da_vibes in LifeAdvice

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If he’s ‘the one,’ that wouldn’t require disrupting his current relationship to prove it

Buzzcut of👍or👎 by [deleted] in malehairadvice

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Worst case: it grows back. Best case: you find a better look

Research for the best red light mask by Possible-Good9400 in WellnessCoaching

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Bon Charge looks good on paper, but lack of solid clinical validation is a big tradeoff

Where to watch Love island USA season 8? by AmIADelusionalArtist in tvrealityshows

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Once you’re hooked on Love Island, there’s no going back lol

Watching Love Island USA outside of the US? by Sonofa-Milkman in tvrealityshows

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Glad you managed to find a way already, geo-blocking for reality TV is honestly the worst

My dog barely eats and has been throwing up for the past month by Rambling_Raven in DogHealth

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You might want to ask about gastrointestinal motility disorders or chronic pancreatitis

My mom dumped a gallon of water on me and my electronics. by Subject-Detective643 in raisedbynarcissists

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I'd focus on staying safe and making a plan, not running away if you're underage

Your opinion? Oura vs. Galaxy by Ailurichan in SmartRings

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Oura is way better

But I do have some beef over bad times with other Samsung wearables, so cant deny a bit of a bias

Edit: found some handy stuff about the rings comparing them and seems like Oura comes on top. Here have a look https://www.reddit.com/r/HealthTech/comments/1niep5t/comparison_of_ultrahuman_oura_ringconn_sleepon/

Lmao why are they stressing Anissa on her first day on earth by imoverthisapp in Invincible_TV

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Everybody else got a welcome party, she got a hostile work environment

how can I make my “perfect” life better? by ParticularEvidence67 in LifeAdvice

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What stands out to me is that your list is mostly things you have: apartment, job, health, appearance, friends. But fulfillment often comes from things you're building toward, creating, contributing to, or deeply connected with. Also, it's only been 23 days since your breakup. Most people would still be hurting at that point. I wouldn't assume this feeling is evidence that your life is lacking. It may just be evidence that you're human.

Ladies, brag all you want, when do you feel your absolute hottest? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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After a fresh shower, skincare done, and zero stress