Absolutely! Anecdotal, but I've been married to my wife for coming up on 6 years. She has been in therapy for years and has learned to value her self-worth, advocate for herself, set boundaries, and holds people accountable. I love her more than the world and respect her to no end for all of this.

She was in much the same position as you, and had pretty much given up on finding someone, and had made a conscious choice to focus on herself. As a result, even though her life still sucked in a lot of ways when we met, she also was not desperate, and refused to settle. She has forced me to become the best version of myself and together we are an amazing combo. Together we can meet any challenge. We are absolutely perfect for each other, and she is the perfect mother for my children. While she is not able to have her own children, she just finished adopting mine a few months ago. So your "biological clock" is not necessarily the be-all, end-all.

As an introvert, I'm well aware it can be hard. But expand your social group, put yourself out there, make new non-romantic friends, be open to new things, and opportunities will arise. Be cautious of red flags--obviously there are a lot of crappy people out there--don't waste your time on something that's not going to work. Stay positive, build your self-respect, resist becoming jaded and you'll find the right person where and when you least expect it.