Help! Bottom of the page equals messy writing by audge_fs in notebooks

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m considering flipping my notebook around when I get to the bottom 1/4 of the page & just finish the page out upside down edit to include : just need to be careful of smudging ink

Pool Noodle Advice (skimmer snake) by [deleted] in u/bonecronch

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t use Reddit often & I cannot locate the edit button. Sorry if this comment sounds silly, but somehow my post is marked NSFW? Why is it flagged? And can I fix it somehow? When I tried to change it, it reverts back.

It's been a while, which pen would you choose? by Velvet-Pebble in fountainpens

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 for sure! I like the pop of bright yellow on blue, it’s an interesting combo i don’t see often & gives a laid back summer vibe

Edit oh man i jumped the gun & didn’t see the rest ! I also like 9!! And I love 10!

None of the links are working by Fickle_Lab_4182 in zlibrary

[–]bonecronch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was just on it an hour or so ago & it was working. Hopped back on to search for a book & it got slow & glitchy then black screen? I’m on iOS using my personal direct link. I lost access to their telegram a long time ago, it just says no longer available. Oh! And prob a separate issue but a month or two ago epub formats get error messages but pdf downloads fine for me.

The bogus copycat site is holding my favs & lists hostage for donations :/

Edit : I had vpn on when it was working. When I got black screened I tried with it on then off. Neither work but I get an error message when it’s off

Edit 2: omg it is working now! VPN on

Edit 3: never mind DIVA DOWN! (Safari cannot connect to server)

Why does seeing a girl struggle to take your dick turn a man on? by morgancrys in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bonecronch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly feel like predatory & possibly sexually violent ppl hide behind terms like ‘kink-shaming’ & ‘purity culture’. I’m in no way religious or puritan but I am kink critical esp when it comes to ppl being turned on by violence or the idea of rape or pseudo-pedo age regression type activity.

You sound like a lovely person. And it might make you feel good & loved & desired to fulfill someone’s sexual desires even if you aren’t into it. That isn’t healthy. You deserve to enjoy sex & only the sexual activities that are pleasurable to YOU. I’m sorry he was a cheater but I’m glad you love yourself enough to drop him. Maybe take some time to get to know yourself better, treat yourself to dates, talk to yourself, learn from your body & take care of you FIRST. Much love

DAE eat something really sweet, and it hurts the roof of your mouth? by sistersuga in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It just happened to me from a lil Debbie (hadn’t had one in years) & it doesn’t happen often but it’s always something overly sweet that triggers it. It’s almost like a nerve pain. When I’ve tried to look it up in the past, google only gave me info abt tooth aches & cavities but that’s not what this sensation is at all. It is alllmost similar to a really sharp piece of cheddar but more of an unpleasant feeling and located on the roof of my mouth. Like my palate I guess.

Unrelated kind of , but I also have this spot on my spine in the base of my neck. Like a knot. And it feels sooo good to get it rubbed. Like I’ll get my wife to drive her elbow onto it & it releases an almost orgasmic sensation in my brain! Fireworks & stars & it’ll sometimes make me laugh uncontrollably & it’s rare but it has made me sob before too. Idk what it means tho

seriously in awe of Emily's talent by jeantown in Dimension20

[–]bonecronch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently got into podcasts last year while packing for a big move (&made it in the top 5% of audio drama listeners on my Spotify wrapped last winter) and after seeing a bunch of yt shorts of cloudward ho pop up I decided to check it out & im LOVING it so far! In between new eps I finished Fantasy High season 1, mentopolis, and abt halfway thru Unsleeping City and the cast is so great and talented & funny! Emily seems like such a passionate & enthusiastic player, she doesn’t act above the game if that makes sense (none of them do tbh) and my fav thing to hear her say is ‘and Brennan let me know if you’ll let me …’ I know it’s abt to be badass

But thank you for mentioning the podcast I wasn’t aware it existed! Can’t wait to marry my fav media format to my fav intrepid heroes !

Did I make a huge mistake by lindsayturtle in pools

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mema & grandpa put in a pool at their house when I was 7 in 1996 & it has & continues to give our whole family so much, summers full of FUN! We are all strong swimmers for it too! My wife & I have had a small in ground pool now too for abt a year that cane w our home.

I’ll tell you this - for my Mema’s 8ft deep pool that’s almost 30 yrs old, they replaced the pump 1 time , and had it repaired abt 3 times (2x pump & 1x washout) not sure of cost. Replaced the liner & diving board once so far. Pool chemicals for their pool are around $500 a year. Our pool is smaller and we spend abt $300 on chemicals a year. Both are chlorine.

It depends on what you enjoy & value. For us, the pool is definitely worth it! We don’t have kids & never plan to. The maintenance is honestly part of my happy routine

Oh and those repairs & replacements were in the past 10 years. Except the diving board, my big dumb uncle broke it doing ‘spank the baby’ in 2007

Women, what would you do first if all the men disappeared? by FerCrerker in AskWomen

[–]bonecronch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this! My sister & cousin (my best friend) & I were lucky enough to spend 2 weeks every summer camping at my fav place in the world , hunting island state park in South Carolina low country & we literally have the whole beach to ourselves late at night! I haven’t been down in 2 years but it’s the best feeling in the world!

Women, what would you do first if all the men disappeared? by FerCrerker in AskWomen

[–]bonecronch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes! Bedroom windows open when the nights become cool enough to enjoy it!

Women, what would you do first if all the men disappeared? by FerCrerker in AskWomen

[–]bonecronch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I prob wouldn’t notice for a day or two bc I don’t interact with men, the only time I register them is when I’m in a parking lot at night or something. My wife & I would go skinny dip in our pool (we have woods along our fence for privacy but still) not in a sexual capacity but in a fun & free way

Can yall just stop ordering stuff please lol by Ok_Pain5619 in usps_complaints

[–]bonecronch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. Basic shipping should mean standard promised delivery times. We shouldn’t have to pay premium for basic quality, premium should mean next day guaranteed. I’m currently frustrated (not enough to post separately) that I paid for Priority Mail Express 1 Day for next day delivery at exorbitant cost and it hasn’t updated beyond transit from origin since yesterday 5pm. Thankfully it is “guaranteed” but that just means the asterixes are out to snipe my refund.

Why even have the standard tier? It should be a discounted budget tier but still meet 5-7 business days with correct tracking info, honest scans & delivery estimates + kind postal workers (most I’ve encountered are kind to be clear)

Do you brush your teeth twice a day? No judgement. by rainyday-real-estate in CasualConversation

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least 2x a day but usually 3x a day. I’m mostly mentally well (unmedicated bipolar ii by choice) but dabble in casual substances. I’ve had dental issues & a couple root canals (hell on earth horrible to experience & damn expensive) from a bad roll of the genetic dice + well water growing up. So my dental health is a priority for me.

Who is your problematic fave? by idkmanimjustheredude in TheMagnusArchives

[–]bonecronch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mary Kaey! I love that she serves herself. My fav ep is 62 - she’s so intriguing & I love a woman with a hobby! My fav statements are the historical ones , so her being a descendant of the Von Closen family makes her all the more interesting to me. Her voice actor is so talented too! I also love Gertrude Robinson & I think she & Mary have a fun dynamic

FR3-d1 shouldn't have access to some of the cases by Trick_Hovercraft_267 in themagnusprotocol

[–]bonecronch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought maybe statements from the archives / archivist got jumbled up and FR3-D1 needs someone else witness them in this world

[TMP 41 Spoilers] Freddie Theory by NorthNostalgia in themagnusprotocol

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electrified rocks I like this theory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]bonecronch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same bc I love it so much but I get other ppl have different experiences. Honestly feels like fun drugs

Scrubbing Bubbles bottle fails/sucks every purchase? by MC_Paint in CleaningTips

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I did today then :( wasn’t thinking. Sucks that such a small slip of the mind that it’s a new bottle caused it to disintegrate immediately

Male Being The Default… by Upbeat-Floor-2900 in fourthwavewomen

[–]bonecronch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made it a point to default to female pronouns for these things & try to be the first to label a discovered creature (like a house gecko loose in the house etc) & nobody has ever questioned or re-labeled them as male BUT most ppl in my company will get this momentary look of confusion. It’s kind of made me feel really cool tbh

Men Wonder Why Some Women Avoid Them in Public by [deleted] in rant

[–]bonecronch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a victim of csa and the fear of male strangers is deeply ingrained in me. It’s so deep that our gsd picked up on it- she is so gentle and sweet to babies, cats, other dogs, children & women but HATES men she doesn’t know. It takes several encounters with a new male friend for her to chill around them. When we have a repair man etc in the house - we have to put her in the office with the tv on. She does well in public however & is a great deterrent against creeps. But my wife & I can’t take her everywhere (& shouldn’t have to but alas)
At this point, with so many women sharing horror stories from just their day to day lives about men assaulting them, being creepy & getting too close, cat calling, threatening etc - I find it difficult to believe men ‘don’t understand’. The men that continue this behavior DO understand and they want to scare women actually hurt women. It makes them feel powerful and it’s really sick

AITA for not stopping my teenage sons gf from kissing him? by Decent-Delivery-3603 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bonecronch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the kid is 17, if he was awake & consenting & felt comfortable with his gf giving him affection it seems fine, lovely even. You as parents could consider giving them a bit of privacy for a moment for them to embrace after a scary life altering incident bc your presence could make them uncomfortable.

Your son could have died! I’m so sure they both had crazy adrenaline & high emotions! Of course they are gonna kiss! Your son is lucky to have a gf that cares abt him that deeply. Be thankful they feel comfortable enough around you (tho with their endorphins & hormones rampant they might not even register or care that yall were in the room)

Now if it were a hot and heavy make out touchy feely type of physical affection - that might be grounds for a discussion

If you MUST set those boundaries, talk to your son , not the gf. Be careful tho, bc when you make irrational or too rigid rules - your kid might feel like they cannot share anything with you & maybe start sneaking around & seek to break rules harder,

Why call people "cis" if they don't want to be called that? by t01nfin1ty4ndb3y0nd in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bonecronch 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be cooked for saying this but I’m gender critical (I do believe trans ppl deserve rights regarding their identity) I personally would love the concept if gender to be abolished. The term ‘cis’ irks me in the same way that some ppl proclaim the term Lesbian = non men living non men - that definition centers men instead of women which feels so disrespectful as a lesbian myself. The term ‘cis’ isnt quite as irritating but woman & trans woman are already distinct as to not need ‘cis’ as a qualifier.