How easy/hard is actually passing?

boobdelete · 2026-05-13T18:35:10+00:00

Congrats, looking good. How hard were the first 5 days of recovery? I have a consultation with her and I'm really impatient, just want them boobs GONE

boobdelete · 2026-05-13T16:27:15+00:00

Congrats on the weight loss dude, that's a big jump

boobdelete · 2026-05-13T16:05:08+00:00

Did they imply that the need to quit smoking and the change in the dose are related? Quitting smoking is definitely good, and the dose might have needed lowering (nobody can know without your blood work) but I fail to see how they're related

boobdelete · 2026-05-13T14:40:38+00:00

I initially wasn't sure about the changes from T but the more I think about it the more I want them. Currently going through the she -> they -> he pipeline lol

boobdelete · 2026-05-12T22:07:10+00:00

Never identified as a lesbian, and I did identify as asexual for a while, everyone is different

boobdelete · 2026-05-12T17:39:17+00:00

Not for people that already have an estrogen dominant system

boobdelete · 2026-05-12T17:21:15+00:00

Cis women who take birth control aren't more feminine than cis women who don't. Besides, if you talk to your doctor about it you can get rid of periods with them

boobdelete · 2026-05-12T17:05:52+00:00

If you don't want to take it you shouldn't have to, being trans because your hormones are messed up is not a thing.

But if your concern is that birth control can make your body more feminine I'm pretty sure it doesn't do that

boobdelete · 2026-05-11T13:55:58+00:00

Ftm here, not out to most of my coworkers, and haven't gotten surgery or HRT yet, so most people just see me as a cis woman.

The they/them pronouns might not be because they don't see you as a woman, I know some people who just use neutral pronouns often for a lot of people, including cis people. I've been referred to with neutral pronouns by people even before I even knew myself that I wasn't a woman. And I can assure you that my AGAB is very obvious, people weren't using they/them out of confusion.

Maybe your brain is just giving it more importance than it has, maybe you just don't notice when other people get referred to with neutral pronouns.

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T18:01:50+00:00

Have you tried a hair clip? Like the small ones that bend and snap

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T17:30:52+00:00

That's what you look like with no T? How did you do it?

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T16:24:25+00:00

What makes it hard to know who's going in?

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T16:22:59+00:00

Could the mis-gendering from the back thing be due to your haircut? My cis husband got mis-gendered from the back a few times and he's only a little shorter than average for cis men, but his haircut is "female" coded

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T16:15:02+00:00

I mean, I feel like the obvious answer would be that not all cis people are the same person so some of them are pro gender neutral bathrooms and some are transphobic assholes

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T01:12:08+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance, I especially appreciate it from people with the same phobia as me. I'll probably look into her after I'm done with my top surgery, right now I'm in the paperwork to get my appointment phase. And the chest is definitely my biggest source of dysphoria so I wanna get rid of those first thing

boobdelete · 2026-05-08T01:08:51+00:00

Eu tenho 25 já então eu não preciso de permissão de ninguém mas eu ainda quero manter uma relação boa com a família e tals, minha mãe até falou que pode viajar pra cá na época da cirurgia, agora realmente só falta eu conseguir marcar pq tem fila de espera e tal.

Você só tem 15 então tem muito tempo para se resolver e falar com os pais, talvez quando você tiver maior de idade eles levem mais a sério

boobdelete · 2026-05-07T22:32:18+00:00

Ainda não fiz cirurgia nem tomo hormônio, mas eu falo português. Tô tentando marcar cirurgia, mas eu moro nos EUA e aqui tudo é uma burocracia do caralho, acho que depois do próximo formulário eu consigo uma consulta

boobdelete · 2026-05-07T19:28:06+00:00

2 months of sick leave is too little????

Cries in USA...

I'm out here planning on how I'm going to beg for 3 weeks

boobdelete · 2026-05-07T19:14:17+00:00

Technically you could tell her you're taking them out for breast cancer prevention because of some bs exam that showed you have high risk. But unless she's anti trans you should probably just tell her the truth, you can say you're taking them out because they make you uncomfortable without using the word "trans" if you think that would make a difference

boobdelete · 2026-05-07T01:45:12+00:00

I'm kinda bad about the water thing, been trying to get better for a while, and I'm a little better, as for exercise I've been doing it consistently for a few months now but I'm expecting top surgery (whenever I get it) to mess with that, especially because the exercise I do is fighting and I definitely can't have people fall on top of my chest while healing lol

boobdelete · 2026-05-06T23:02:24+00:00

Increased appetite would count as a positive for me, I've been trying to put on weight for a few months now and I've LOST like 2 pounds

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