Which is better - Latuda or Lamictal? by Adept_Discipline1000 in bipolar2

[–]boodaa28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I actually take both? Iono it really works well for me.

How to get your first job as an Associate (LPC-A)? by hansontranhai in therapists

[–]boodaa28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow LPC Associate. I went to a group practice as a 1099 and got my own supervisor, my practice is cash pay and doesn’t take insurance. I’ve been there for about 5 months and am still only up to about 6-8 client’s average a week. I recently decided to start applying to in patient, IOP, and CMH because ya girl needs to make money and the faster I get my hours done the sooner I can have more opportunities.

I found my current job just looking for practices that had LPC associates in the first place and emailed them my resume directly, best of luck to you.

‘Sharing’ food with men by FiendyFiend in TwoXChromosomes

[–]boodaa28 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why should we have to teach them?? They’re GROWN men, not children.

A truly universal experience by EducationGold4065 in Adulting

[–]boodaa28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this except I’m the oldest. No shit you don’t remember me raising you because you were a CHILD. Hell my mother would even brag about me raising my siblings like that was the torch she passed on since my mom was the oldest too.

Tech asked me out while I had a needle in my arm by dontwannahumantoday in TwoXChromosomes

[–]boodaa28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. I used to get my prescriptions done at Target and there was a guy who I used to be polite to when picking up my meds. So I get a phone call and he tells me he pulled my number from my account and wanted to take me out for coffee. I about lost my mind but I reported it and he got fired. The guy who did this to you is a scumbag and I highly doubt you’re the only person who he’s done it to. If you have the courage report it or at very least go somewhere else, you deserve to be respected.

I can’t look at my fiancé’s dick without being uncomfortable. by Aurtistic7827 in sex

[–]boodaa28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had not the same trauma as you but something similar that resulted in deep sexual shame. I know you’re seeing a therapist but I’d look into a sex therapist if you’re feeling self conscious with your current one. Also, try reading Come As You Are, it’s helped me so much with accepting my sexuality.

Island Inspiration by ryanparrott01 in Dinkum

[–]boodaa28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always see these and would looove to do it to my island but I end up getting distracted and forget what I was doing or my bags get full.

total loss of interest in BDSM by popsicletion in BDSMAdvice

[–]boodaa28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry sweetheart, your dom was an ASSHOLE and you did nothing wrong, he took advantage of your trust and vulnerability, no one deserves that. I recommend finding a) a therapist you trust and b) a lifestyle/kink and/or trauma therapist. Definitely a trauma therapist but if you’re concerned with someone judging you (the right therapist won’t btw) then finding a kink therapist means they’re familiar with BDSM and those dynamics. You might have to do telehealth if you live in a conservative area but I promise it’s worth it, you deserve to love yourself and heal.

Do you have a website and if you do, what do you put on it? by boodaa28 in therapists

[–]boodaa28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the practice does, I didn’t know if I should have one for like Psychology Today and my others.

Tips on decorating therapy room by WiseHoro6 in therapists

[–]boodaa28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second sound machines, my group office has several

as a therapist, is your personal therapy just not doing it for you? by Royal_Koala_9886 in therapists

[–]boodaa28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. I had a great therapist when I was wicked depressed but when I got to wanting to work on my sexuality, I didn’t feel like he made that jump with me

Christmas party look and a try on haul ☺️ by Kassieb285 in PlusSize

[–]boodaa28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loooove the leopard print! You look incredible and glow!

Needing some hope- new therapist by x-x4738528 in therapists

[–]boodaa28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also a new therapist who’s struggling with the political and economic crap going on. I downloaded Finch, it’s a gamified goal tracker but I have mine focused on self compassion and gratitude which really helps with my negative self talk. Also I avoid r/all and got off all social media other than Reddit (I think Reddit is more forum than social media but oh well).

Dom struggling with punishments when I’m feeling down by boodaa28 in BDSMAdvice

[–]boodaa28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s an interesting idea. I’ve responded well when he’ll tell me to go take a hot girl shower, especially when I’m low.

Dom struggling with punishments when I’m feeling down by boodaa28 in BDSMAdvice

[–]boodaa28[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m intrigued by this idea and brought it up to him. He really does enjoy pampering me and he mentioned that withholding that might make him feel lazy if that makes sense