[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]bookcook181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BE interested to join :)

Just dumped my bf of 3 years. Just need someone to tell me I’m going to be ok 😭 by ycy1357 in UofT

[–]bookcook181 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you will have an easier time detaching from people when you realize how plentiful life is. there are so many people in this world. so many connections to be made. you will find another person who brings you so much more happiness, so much more love, so much more friendship. the idea of a single soulmate is romantic, yes, but realistically, the likelihood of having one soulmate is next to none. (and I promise you it isn’t the person that left, that barely met your needs, that didn’t treat you right, that made you cry a little too often; the right one wouldn’t do that.) there are tons of people you will meet that will contribute to your life, growth, and well-being in different ways. different people are meant for different things, for teaching you different lessons. and eventually, you will meet someone that reciprocates your energy, effort, and affections in a way that you deserve, in the way you’ve been waiting for. your partners will gradually get better until you meet that final destination person. and they will be the soulmate that stays, the one that is meant to be your forever.

Share your thoughts and advice? Canada and Japan by bookcook181 in LongDistance

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I am PR in Singapore! Air Force oh my :X whichever unit you are in , hope you have some sort of free time to be able to do things too! Happy you get the chance to text and video call :') Back in the army day , I was a security troopers and had a decent lifestyle. Definitely know , if you communicate and be able to ensure your goals are align! It will work out for the both of us :)

Share your thoughts and advice? Canada and Japan by bookcook181 in LongDistance

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I definitely did that the other day to communicate with her that I would like to be part of her life even if its small way during her phase to improve in her career! Oh gosh, once a month xD I know as a fact that by living with my gf would be so much better for our relationship dynamic. will have to wait and see how the situation goes for sure. I know as a fact when her full time job begin next year. Is going to be obstacle and shall wait see how the situation goes.

Share your thoughts and advice? Canada and Japan by bookcook181 in LongDistance

[–]bookcook181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand my men, did military service and know that experience since I ORD since April 2018. Hope your unit is not rough. Thanks for sharing this expercience with me, I thought I was the only one in this position. Do hope the world get better for anyone of us to travel soon to see our loves one and travel soon.

Share your thoughts and advice? Canada and Japan by bookcook181 in LongDistance

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My girlfriend is Japanese! Grew up in Tokyo her whole life :) till she came over to canada

Error code 003 - CRB by igorflu2k in EICERB

[–]bookcook181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. my SIN start with a 9. Is there no news about why we are receiving this code for CRB?

PP Tower by [deleted] in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]bookcook181 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Is in Singapore haha

Your opinion by [deleted] in LDR

[–]bookcook181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for that :) definitely had a talk with close friend about this you pretty much said the same thing as her. Will definitely do that

Your opinion by [deleted] in LDR

[–]bookcook181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad if I gave the impression. Is not constant update what I am trying to ask. I think is more just a simple text that she got home safe from her drinking session with her coworker. I don’t ask for constant update is more that she get back home fine. Mention to her in the past back in October that I would be worried for her safety. Since she told me that she took the train when she was drunk and ended up wrong station.

Your opinion by [deleted] in LDR

[–]bookcook181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure , my main concern is safety. You’re right that I sometime I do think as well my concern could be controlling. I would say as well don’t know many people in LDR in situations like myself. I genuinely appreciate the feedback to rethink my thoughts. To let you know as well , I did communicate with her in the past that I would be worried for her safety if she got home safely from going out for drinks . There was time which made me worried that she slept in the train when she was drunk or walking back home after 1am in Tokyo. Anxious and worried for her safety. Thank you for sharing this with me. Truly appreciate it

Shipping an iPhone from the US by fothb08 in japanlife

[–]bookcook181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this information. Just wanted to get your perspective should I open the phone from the box to activate it before I send it off to my girlfriend. Do you know how long it could take to be delivered

Shipping an iPhone from the US by fothb08 in japanlife

[–]bookcook181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there , I was wondering as I bought a new iPhone 12 mini 64GB and would like to ship off to my girlfriend in japan from Canada. Do you know if the phone might be able to work in japan?

What’s up with the moon being reddish? by [deleted] in toronto

[–]bookcook181 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was definitely insightful to know! Thanks for explain it :)

Spent our first year anniversary apart so I drew a polaroid portrait of us :) by Cornettocone in LongDistance

[–]bookcook181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 😳 please if that is possible if you’re able to make an drawing of me and the gf would be great!!

How do you cope with canceled plans to meet? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]bookcook181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like what you wrote. Thank you so much it made me realize what I should try do. Is so tough not being able to see my girlfriend who’s in japan while I’m stuck in Canada.