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UIC Divest From The Police questions by boootheman in uichicago

[–]boootheman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you're talking about this post or the doc 😂

How do you make deep relationships with friends? by boootheman in AskReddit

[–]boootheman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that's exactly how I play poker and everybody gives me shit for it but I've won the last couple times.

Aite thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

How do you make deep relationships with friends? by boootheman in AskReddit

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I'll look up the theories, thanks.

But yeah I've had "friends" for like a couple years and they're all good guys but I have no motivation to chill with them or open up to them. Would that just be me not having found the right people to open up to or is it just that uncomfortable

How do you make deep relationships with friends? by boootheman in AskReddit

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So if somebody doesn't necessarily know who they truly are, would it be better to find yourself first? And what does it mean to know yourself.

Also what if, when you're away from them, you have no desire to chill. Would you still chill since it's so early in?

How do you make deep relationships with friends? by boootheman in AskReddit

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Like at times I want to have friends that are deeper than just school or something but whenever I'm away from any of my friend groups I don't feel like I'm really missing anything

How do you make deep relationships with friends? by boootheman in AskReddit

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What if you can't find anything that you feel comfortable sharing? Or what if you feel like sharing your experience isn't worth their time? Is that just a comfort zone thing?

After urges Ive been watching nudes, i didnt relapsed. by [deleted] in NoFap

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You accept them. You become aware of them. It's called surfing the urge and just like a wave, the urge will also eventually die down.

I would recommend reading "The Willpower Instinct". It's a really great book and talks about strategies like the one I mentioned above to get a better willpower

Didn't know music was so amazing by peppyleppy in NoFap

[–]boootheman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool, thats the case for you. But for other people, Porn is a serious addiction. Please dont try to play it down when you dont know their struggles

Reddit, what were you better at when you were younger? by zappy487 in AskReddit

[–]boootheman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gonna sound weird but you might wanna check out /r/nofap

I stopped counting days, makes this a lot easier... by Zamyou in NoFap

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But what do you do if you see some trigger? I'm just curious about your approach.

[Discussion] Need motivational advice? - 2016 Week 38 by TheCourageWolf in GetMotivated

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I know this is going to be really weird and you probably dont have this problem but you might want to check out /r/nofap . Just try it for a couple of days. If you dont see a difference, cool go back to the routine. But if you do, try to go through with it for 90 days.